
One of the sound bites that one hears ad nausea from Virginia's homophobic right wing, "pro-life" Christians is their deep concern for "the children." One hears similar bleating from their political prostitutes within the Republican Party who will go to any lengths not to offend their Christofascist masters. In reality, both groups only care about some children - those in utero and, after they are born, only white, heterosexual children. The lives and well being of all the rest evaporates at birth and we see these "devout Christians" doing all in their power to marginalize and make life a living hell for LGBT children, youth and adults. In respect to poor minority children, they support every effort to slash the social safety net and deprive them of health care assess. They reserve something special for LGBT youth, however: (i) constant propaganda that being LGBT is wrong and shameful, and (ii) so-called "conversion therapy" - which is condemned by every legitimate medical and mental health association in America - that constitutes nothing less than a form of psychological and sometimes actual physical torture aimed at making LGBT youth "straight." Yet through all of this we hear the disingenuous, hypocrisy laden claim that these people care about "the children." A piece in
GayRVA looks at the continued Christofascist/GOP effort to subject LGBT youth to what constitutes torture. Here are excerpts:
Good afternoon,
pro-lifers of Greater Virginia! I hope you’re sitting, because we need to talk.
You claim to be
about the children, about their lives and safety. Do you just mean while
they’re in utero? Or do you still care about them once they’re out of the womb
— but only if they’re straight?
Because if you
really care about children — ALL children — the way you say you do, then we
need to know where you stand on conversion therapy.
The battle to ban
conversion therapy continues to rage on here in Virginia. For years, bills have
been proposed within the General Assembly to ban it. Sadly, all have failed.
As recently as
January of this year, Sen. Scott Surovell (D-Fairfax) introduced a bill that
would ban conversion therapy (defined within the bill as “any practice or
treatment that seeks to change an individual’s sexual orientation or gender
identity”) for minors in Virginia, and prohibit licensed therapists from
performing it. Of course, the bill was sadly killed by Republicans on the
Senate Education and Health Committee, 8-7.
Surovell
explained to the Richmond
Times-Dispatch that there is sufficient evidence proving the psychological
and physical harm this plays on minors, including increased depression and
suicide attempts. The American Psychological Association has outright stated
that conversion therapy is harmful — a 2007 report on the practice by the
APA stated
that “results of scientifically valid research indicate that it is unlikely
that individuals will be able to reduce same-sex attractions or increase
other-sex sexual attractions through sexual-orientation change efforts.”
But, hey. Why
listen to people who are actual experts? Silly talk!
In an interview
with NBC12, Ted Lewis, Head Director of Side By Side, talks about what can
happen to your child in conversion therapy.
“There are a lot
of different things that can happen to a young person,” said Lewis. “First and
foremost, there is a lot of shame that comes with the person being told they
are not okay who they are. And on top of that, the tools used to get them to
try and convert can be electric shock, hypnotizing the person, lots of shaming,
and sometimes even forced intercourse.”
So, again I have
to ask. Why do you seriously just not care about our queer children? Do you seriously care that little that our
children are being subjected to legalized torture? You’re okay with them being
electrocuted or shamed for just being alive?
[E]ven the state
licensing boards are over it, and recently aimed to ban it themselves despite
the General Assembly’s continuous attempts to shut down any bills.
Last week, the
Department of Health Professions held a
work group to discuss this. Potential regulations were discussed that would
prohibit anyone licensed to practice in Virginia from using conversion therapy
to intentionally alter any child’s sexual or gender identity.
Naturally, Sen.
Amanda Chase, R-Chesterfield, argued against these regulations, reminding the
group that the bill had been killed in the General Assembly. “I voted against
this bill (voted yes to pass by indefinitely) in the Senate Education and
Health committee because it violates free speech, religious liberty, and
endangers children who should be able to receive helpful counsel,” she posted
on Facebook after the meeting.
Sen. Chase. You
are specifically who I am calling out in this article. You are the real danger
to our children, and people who think like you. You are why our children are
dying.
So, I’ll just
ask you flat out. Why do you want our queer children to suffer so badly?
So I’m going to
ask again, my dear pro-lifers, who swear until they are blue in the face and
writhing on the floor that they care about nothing more than the lives of our
children. Do you genuinely care about our children once they leave the womb, or
do you only care as long as they are cisgender and straight?
Because if you
do care about all of our children, and yes I mean every single one of them
regardless their gender and or sexual identity, then you need to stop allowing
conversion therapy to be foisted upon them. If you’ll stand for that, you’re
not pro-life.
The next time you hear Victoria Cobb of The Family Foundation or Republicans like Sen. Amanda Chase bloviating about caring for children, know that it is all a lie. Better yet, call them out on it and, in case of Virginia Republicans, vote them out of office in 2019.