
Thoughts on Life, Love, Politics, Hypocrisy and Coming Out in Mid-Life
Saturday, February 20, 2010
JONAH and NARTH's Ex-Con Director/Exective Secretary Plays the Victim

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Arthur Goldberg’s damage-control campaign has begun. His strategy is to portray himself as an innocent man who made a mistake, and is now the victim of a ruthless personal attack by the purveyors of the much-feared gay agenda. Arthur A Goldberg, Executive Secretary of NARTH and a co-founder and co-director of Jewish ex-gay group JONAH, was exposed earlier this week as convicted felon Arthur Abba Goldberg, the Wall Street investor fined $100,000 and sentenced to 18 months in 1989 on three counts of mail fraud and one count of conspiracy to defraud the United States of America.
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Goldberg has yet to respond publicly to the reports. He appears, however, to have written to his fellow board members at NARTH, in a letter obtained by Ex-Gay Watch. . . . This suggests that he had not disclosed his criminal past to NARTH. This is further supported by XGW’s conversation with David Pruden, NARTH’s Vice President of Operations. While freely identifying Goldberg as Arthur Abba Goldberg, Pruden denied knowing anything of the charges made in Monday’s article. This is very concerning. Who neglects to disclose criminal convictions – especially a felony of this nature – to organizations for which they work, unless quite deliberately?
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According to this account [by Goldberg], he pleaded guilty as a concession because it was in his own best interests, as well as the best interest of his family and the company. Yet he claims he accepted full responsibility. Which is it, Arthur? Goldberg wants to have it both ways. He holds his hands up to accept the blame, while suggesting it was only technically fraud, not morally. This is doublespeak. And it is contradicted by the reports we have from the time.
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Essentially, Goldberg asks his fellow NARTH board members to take his word over the word of the attorney who successfully prosecuted him for fraud, the judge who found him guilty, and the court that disbarred him from practicing law in New Jersey.
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He does go to great lengths to pin responsibility on homosexuals, however. His proven past crimes, which so far we have every reason to believe have been deliberately kept out of the public eye, are not to blame for the spotlight on him now, according to Goldberg. To demonstrate this, he resurrects the familiar myth that his gay critics are simply following the gay agenda set out by Kirk and Madsen in 1989: Of course, the strategy employed by those who wish to dig around for dirt in someone’s past . . . They stated in the book that those perceived as opponents of the gay movement were to be attacked and vilified. . . . . So, if you are able to do a character assassination of the proponents, so goes the theory, then you can kill the message they represent.
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Finally, having absolved himself of responsibility, Goldberg portrays himself as a martyr to the cause of anti-gay activism and reparative therapy: [I] understand that there are individuals out there with myopic bigotry on the SSA issue and I need to be prepared to take my lumps for anything I have done in the past or the present, and indeed in the future. . . . Many thanks to you all for standing with me, for being there, and for maintaining the fight for accurate science, truth and justice.
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Unfortunately, Goldberg is the norm among the professional ex-gay advocates. Truth and honesty mean nothing. It's all about making a buck off of the ignorant and uninformed and keeping the choice myth alive to harm LGBT citizens and keep them second class citizens under the civil laws. Wayne Besen also has more here at Truth Wins Out. Oh, and it's nice to know that I am a "purveyor of the much feared gay agenda."
What the Democrats and Obama Don't Get About Gay Rights

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[W]e're talking about our civil rights. I think a lot of straight Democrats don't get that. They see out and proud gay people, a lot of us have good jobs, nice clothes, get to travel the world (and a lot of us don't, but they don't ever meet them), so they think our civil rights battle is some kind of champagne party to us, as if we're doing it for fun because we really have everything we could ever want. Well, anyone who thinks that didn't grow up gay. They didn't grow up thinking they were a pervert. That they were sick. That they'd never find love, never get married, never have children or a family of their own - because God made them wrong. They didn't grow up thinking they'd have to kill themselves once they hit the age of 30 because they'd be single, and people would 'figure out' that they were gay, and then they'd lose all their friends and family and their job and career. And they knew they couldn't live with that.
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That last point is important. Pick any political issue, any political constituency, and ask yourself how many of those issues, how many of those people, considered killing themselves over their issue. Not a lot, I'm guessing. Now you're starting to understand why gay civil rights advocates, why gay people, care so fervently about their "issue." It's not just an issue for us. It's our lives. That's what it's like to be gay in America.
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. . . When all the Democrats show is political homophobia, gays get the message. Some gays and lesbians will vote for Democrats regardless of how blatantly the Obama administration and the Democratic party back away from their promises to repeal DADT, repeal DOMA, and pass ENDA. Regardless of how clear it is that the White House will appoint an openly gay cabinet member or an openly gay Supreme Court justice when hell freezes over. But I think, come November, and come many more Novembers in the future, a lot of gays and lesbians, are going to realize that we're talking about our lives, rather than our right to attend a cocktail party. And when it comes to our lives, and voting for someone who treats us with the same kind of shame every single one of us grew up with, I think you're going to see an increasing number of gay Americans distancing themselves from the Democratic party with their donations and their votes. They may not vote Republican, nor should they - they simply may not vote at all.
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To the White House, the DNC, and our leadership in Congress: You are messing with people's lives, and we know it. And the day that an anti-gay bigot gets booed at CPAC, you all better start being very afraid.
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That last point is important. Pick any political issue, any political constituency, and ask yourself how many of those issues, how many of those people, considered killing themselves over their issue. Not a lot, I'm guessing. Now you're starting to understand why gay civil rights advocates, why gay people, care so fervently about their "issue." It's not just an issue for us. It's our lives. That's what it's like to be gay in America.
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. . . When all the Democrats show is political homophobia, gays get the message. Some gays and lesbians will vote for Democrats regardless of how blatantly the Obama administration and the Democratic party back away from their promises to repeal DADT, repeal DOMA, and pass ENDA. Regardless of how clear it is that the White House will appoint an openly gay cabinet member or an openly gay Supreme Court justice when hell freezes over. But I think, come November, and come many more Novembers in the future, a lot of gays and lesbians, are going to realize that we're talking about our lives, rather than our right to attend a cocktail party. And when it comes to our lives, and voting for someone who treats us with the same kind of shame every single one of us grew up with, I think you're going to see an increasing number of gay Americans distancing themselves from the Democratic party with their donations and their votes. They may not vote Republican, nor should they - they simply may not vote at all.
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To the White House, the DNC, and our leadership in Congress: You are messing with people's lives, and we know it. And the day that an anti-gay bigot gets booed at CPAC, you all better start being very afraid.
Bob McDonnell Wants to Close What Once was Virginia's Lone Blacks-Only Park.

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One of the five state parks Gov. Bob McDonnell wants to close to save money has a singular distinction in Virginia history - it contains what once was the state's lone blacks-only park. And growing awareness of that fact has caused some legislators to call for rejecting that aspect of the governor's recommendation in efforts to narrow a $2.2 billion state budget shortfall.
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"It's going to be problematic for that to get passed," Norfolk Democratic Del. Kenny Alexander said of the proposal to shutter Twin Lakes State Park in Prince Edward County. Alexander, chairman of the Legislative Black Caucus, said he expects his group to include the park in a statement it plans to issue next week about budget priorities.
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[I]n 1950. . . state officials established Prince Edward State Park for Negroes in response to a lawsuit from a black citizen who had been denied admission to another state park. Venerated civil rights attorney Oliver W. Hill Sr. spearheaded that lawsuit, . . . To this day, Twin Lakes remains popular among African American visitors, many of whom hold family reunions there, explained local historian Lacy Ward Jr., director of the Robert Russa Moton Museum in nearby Farmville.
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While more than one-third of Virginia's 35 state parks had fewer visitors than Twin Lakes' 102,000 last year and the park's nearly $2.4 million economic impact is greater than some others, . . . McDonnell administration officials say the selected parks were included in the proposed budget cuts based on "objective criteria."
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Virginia has a long and sordid history of discrimination - something that Bob McDonnell seems intent on continuing under his regime. Virginia is for Lovers as long as they are white, straight, and preferably evangelical Christians and far right Roman Catholics. The rest of us are more or less not welcome.
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"It's going to be problematic for that to get passed," Norfolk Democratic Del. Kenny Alexander said of the proposal to shutter Twin Lakes State Park in Prince Edward County. Alexander, chairman of the Legislative Black Caucus, said he expects his group to include the park in a statement it plans to issue next week about budget priorities.
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[I]n 1950. . . state officials established Prince Edward State Park for Negroes in response to a lawsuit from a black citizen who had been denied admission to another state park. Venerated civil rights attorney Oliver W. Hill Sr. spearheaded that lawsuit, . . . To this day, Twin Lakes remains popular among African American visitors, many of whom hold family reunions there, explained local historian Lacy Ward Jr., director of the Robert Russa Moton Museum in nearby Farmville.
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While more than one-third of Virginia's 35 state parks had fewer visitors than Twin Lakes' 102,000 last year and the park's nearly $2.4 million economic impact is greater than some others, . . . McDonnell administration officials say the selected parks were included in the proposed budget cuts based on "objective criteria."
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Virginia has a long and sordid history of discrimination - something that Bob McDonnell seems intent on continuing under his regime. Virginia is for Lovers as long as they are white, straight, and preferably evangelical Christians and far right Roman Catholics. The rest of us are more or less not welcome.
The Outright Craziness of Homophobes Who Would Kill Their Child

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At a human rights forum held Friday morning in Kampala, a Ugandan Member of Parliament said he would kill his son if he discovered he was gay. The MP, Otto Odonga, was immediately denounced by the forum's keynote speaker, Makau Mutua.
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"I am baffled by the kind of hatred you spew against gay people," Mutua said, "including your desire to be a hangman. Would you apply to be a hangman if the person to be hanged were your son?" When Odonga nodded yes, Mutua said, "There is something deeply wrong with you."
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The forum, titled Human Rights and Sexual Orientation, made it clear that many Ugandans do not yet believe that homos are entitled to human rights. The country's MPs are getting set to debate a law that would impose the death penalty on people who engage in gay sex more than once.
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"Human rights are not sacrosanct," Odonga said. "Private parts do not belong in the anus. We will not accept this kind of deviant behaviour in our society." Another MP, Christopher Kibanzanga, angrily spoke out against the "vice" of homosexuality. He asked, "Who are bisexuals? What do they do? Has it just been imported into Africa?"
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Mutua, the chair of Kenya's Human Rights Commission, tore into the MPs as if he was a judge passing sentence onto criminals. "It's important that we all try to expose ourselves to knowledge, to keep on growing," Mutua said. "People who express extremist views are, in my view, always the ones who have read the least."
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The Harvard-educated lawyer went on to liken the MPs' arguments against human rights to comments made by slave owners in the American Civil War. "The kind of speech you made against gay people was the kind of speech that white segregationists were making all over America. Those arguments are classic. They have been reproduced in every era by every segment of society. You didn't invent them."
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Mutua went on to say he believes that countries like Canada would be justified in holding back on foreign aid if MPs pass the anti-gay bill. "There are consequences to being a member of the international community," he said.
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As I have stated before, in my view, far right and fundamentalist Christianity requires ignorance and bigotry to thrive. Hence why the Catholic Church and other anti-gay denominations are expanding in Africa while wither in the educated areas of the world.
At a human rights forum held Friday morning in Kampala, a Ugandan Member of Parliament said he would kill his son if he discovered he was gay. The MP, Otto Odonga, was immediately denounced by the forum's keynote speaker, Makau Mutua.
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"I am baffled by the kind of hatred you spew against gay people," Mutua said, "including your desire to be a hangman. Would you apply to be a hangman if the person to be hanged were your son?" When Odonga nodded yes, Mutua said, "There is something deeply wrong with you."
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The forum, titled Human Rights and Sexual Orientation, made it clear that many Ugandans do not yet believe that homos are entitled to human rights. The country's MPs are getting set to debate a law that would impose the death penalty on people who engage in gay sex more than once.
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"Human rights are not sacrosanct," Odonga said. "Private parts do not belong in the anus. We will not accept this kind of deviant behaviour in our society." Another MP, Christopher Kibanzanga, angrily spoke out against the "vice" of homosexuality. He asked, "Who are bisexuals? What do they do? Has it just been imported into Africa?"
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Mutua, the chair of Kenya's Human Rights Commission, tore into the MPs as if he was a judge passing sentence onto criminals. "It's important that we all try to expose ourselves to knowledge, to keep on growing," Mutua said. "People who express extremist views are, in my view, always the ones who have read the least."
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The Harvard-educated lawyer went on to liken the MPs' arguments against human rights to comments made by slave owners in the American Civil War. "The kind of speech you made against gay people was the kind of speech that white segregationists were making all over America. Those arguments are classic. They have been reproduced in every era by every segment of society. You didn't invent them."
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Mutua went on to say he believes that countries like Canada would be justified in holding back on foreign aid if MPs pass the anti-gay bill. "There are consequences to being a member of the international community," he said.
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As I have stated before, in my view, far right and fundamentalist Christianity requires ignorance and bigotry to thrive. Hence why the Catholic Church and other anti-gay denominations are expanding in Africa while wither in the educated areas of the world.
Friday, February 19, 2010
Elaine Donnelly's Anti-Gay Blather

I mentioned yesterday how Elaine Donnelly and other freepers at the CPAC coven meeting were getting their panties in a wad over proposals to repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell - a clear example of religious based discrimination being codified into law. The chart set out above gives a flow chart of Ms. Donnelly's lunatic premises on what a repeal of DADT would mean. Sadly, she cannot grasp that not everyone is obsessed with gay sex as she is. Moreover, why is she so convinced that a gay service member is going to waste his/her time hitting on a disinterested straight person? Ms. Donnelly needs to get some serious therapy NOW.
More Real Estate Distress Looms

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A mortgage crisis like the one that has devastated homeowners is enveloping the nation's office and retail buildings, and few places are likely to be hit as hard as Washington. The foreclosure wave is likely to swamp many smaller community banks across the country, and many well-known properties, including Washington's Mayflower Hotel and the Boulevard at the Capital Centre in Largo, are at risk, industry analysts say.
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The new round of financial pain, which some had anticipated but hoped to avoid, now seems all but certain. "There's been an enormous bubble in commercial real estate, and it has to come down," said Elizabeth Warren, chairman of the Congressional Oversight Panel, the watchdog created by Congress to monitor the financial bailout. "There will be significant bankruptcies among developers and significant failures among community banks."
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Unlike the largest banks, such as Citigroup and Wachovia, that got into so much trouble early on, the community banks in general fared better in the residential mortgage crisis. But their turn is coming: Not only did community banks issue a higher proportion of commercial loans, but they also have held on to them rather than sell them to other investors.
A mortgage crisis like the one that has devastated homeowners is enveloping the nation's office and retail buildings, and few places are likely to be hit as hard as Washington. The foreclosure wave is likely to swamp many smaller community banks across the country, and many well-known properties, including Washington's Mayflower Hotel and the Boulevard at the Capital Centre in Largo, are at risk, industry analysts say.
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The new round of financial pain, which some had anticipated but hoped to avoid, now seems all but certain. "There's been an enormous bubble in commercial real estate, and it has to come down," said Elizabeth Warren, chairman of the Congressional Oversight Panel, the watchdog created by Congress to monitor the financial bailout. "There will be significant bankruptcies among developers and significant failures among community banks."
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Unlike the largest banks, such as Citigroup and Wachovia, that got into so much trouble early on, the community banks in general fared better in the residential mortgage crisis. But their turn is coming: Not only did community banks issue a higher proportion of commercial loans, but they also have held on to them rather than sell them to other investors.
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Nearly 3,000 community banks -- 40 percent of the banking system -- have a high proportion of commercial real estate loans relative to their capital, said Warren, whose committee issued a report on commercial real estate last week. "Every dollar they lose in commercial real estate is a dollar they can't use for small businesses," she said.
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The threat is especially acute in the District, the firm said, where the catalogue of troubled commercial real estate properties has grown tenfold since April. Moreover, the region has $7.3 billion in commercial properties that are underwater -- worth less than the mortgages on them -- according to CoStar.
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Nationwide, at least $1.4 trillion in commercial real estate debt is expected to roll over during the next three years. Warren said that half of commercial real estate mortgages will be underwater by the beginning of 2011. A fifth of residential mortgages are underwater now, she said.
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Things do not bode well and meanwhile we have a Congress that cannot get anything done. The GOP obstructs everything and the Democrats lack the spine to act. It's not a cheerful picture.
Nearly 3,000 community banks -- 40 percent of the banking system -- have a high proportion of commercial real estate loans relative to their capital, said Warren, whose committee issued a report on commercial real estate last week. "Every dollar they lose in commercial real estate is a dollar they can't use for small businesses," she said.
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The threat is especially acute in the District, the firm said, where the catalogue of troubled commercial real estate properties has grown tenfold since April. Moreover, the region has $7.3 billion in commercial properties that are underwater -- worth less than the mortgages on them -- according to CoStar.
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Nationwide, at least $1.4 trillion in commercial real estate debt is expected to roll over during the next three years. Warren said that half of commercial real estate mortgages will be underwater by the beginning of 2011. A fifth of residential mortgages are underwater now, she said.
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Things do not bode well and meanwhile we have a Congress that cannot get anything done. The GOP obstructs everything and the Democrats lack the spine to act. It's not a cheerful picture.
Bob McDonnell's Message: Virginia is Not Open for Business - UPDATE

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McDonnell claims that he wants to be a jobs governor, but the message he has sent is that unless you are white, conservative Christian, and straight, Virginia is NOT the place for you or your business.
Evan Lysacek Seizes the Gold for U.S.A.

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Evan Lysacek's coach, Frank Carroll, had one major hope for his skater going into Thursday's Olympic free skate final. "I want him to grab this opportunity and make it something special," Carroll said, "because so few skaters have this chance."
Evan Lysacek's coach, Frank Carroll, had one major hope for his skater going into Thursday's Olympic free skate final. "I want him to grab this opportunity and make it something special," Carroll said, "because so few skaters have this chance."
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Lysacek did all that and more at the Pacific Coliseum. Shaking off the suffocating pressure of the moment -- which actually lasted four minutes, 30 seconds -- Lysacek delivered a brilliant, career-best performance to become the first U.S. man to win the Olympic skating gold medal since Brian Boitano in 1988.
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"I can't even put into words right now how I'm feeling," said Lysacek, the 24-year-old from the Chicago suburb of Naperville, who lives and trains in Los Angeles. "This is the greatest night of my life." . . . Johnny Weir of the United States was sixth (238.87), with teammate Jeremy Abbott ninth at 218.96.
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The Olympics are so inspiring. From watching the skating events, both my daughters are going to start skating again, although not at a competitive level. As a parent, it's a proud moment to see your child win an event, so I can hardly imaging who Lysacek's family is feeling right now.
Lysacek did all that and more at the Pacific Coliseum. Shaking off the suffocating pressure of the moment -- which actually lasted four minutes, 30 seconds -- Lysacek delivered a brilliant, career-best performance to become the first U.S. man to win the Olympic skating gold medal since Brian Boitano in 1988.
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"I can't even put into words right now how I'm feeling," said Lysacek, the 24-year-old from the Chicago suburb of Naperville, who lives and trains in Los Angeles. "This is the greatest night of my life." . . . Johnny Weir of the United States was sixth (238.87), with teammate Jeremy Abbott ninth at 218.96.
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The Olympics are so inspiring. From watching the skating events, both my daughters are going to start skating again, although not at a competitive level. As a parent, it's a proud moment to see your child win an event, so I can hardly imaging who Lysacek's family is feeling right now.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Wingnuts at CPAC Hold Press Conference Supporting DADT

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According to HRC, Donnelly will be joined at the CPAC wingnut conclave were other dedicated professional homophobes such as Tom Minnery, Vice President, Public Policy, Focus on the Family, Tony Perkins, President, Family Research Council, David Keene of the American Service Union, Penny Nance of the Concerned Women for America. CPAC also promises more hate spouting from also promise leaders from the Eagle Forum, Let Freedom Ring, the American Family Association and the Traditional Values Coalition. Here are some highlights from News Channel 8:
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Hundreds of thousands of conservatives poured into Washington this week for CPAC, the Conservative Political Action Conference. With the Obama administration trying to overturn don't ask, don't tell this year, there's been a lot of talk about the policy's future.
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"I respect Mr. Cheney for many reasons, but I'm not aware that he is aware of the full range of consequences that the repeal of this law would have on our military," said Elaine Donnelly of the Center for Military Readiness. When it comes to the policy, many conservatives agree to disagree not just with Cheney, but also the top Pentagon brass, including Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Joint Chiefs Chairman Admiral Mike Mullen. "And our message is not so fast," added Donnelly. "There needs to be a lot of questions asked before we pass an LGBT law for the military."
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Donnelly disagrees with Cheney even though she has ZERO military experience herself.
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Hundreds of thousands of conservatives poured into Washington this week for CPAC, the Conservative Political Action Conference. With the Obama administration trying to overturn don't ask, don't tell this year, there's been a lot of talk about the policy's future.
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"I respect Mr. Cheney for many reasons, but I'm not aware that he is aware of the full range of consequences that the repeal of this law would have on our military," said Elaine Donnelly of the Center for Military Readiness. When it comes to the policy, many conservatives agree to disagree not just with Cheney, but also the top Pentagon brass, including Defense Secretary Robert Gates and Joint Chiefs Chairman Admiral Mike Mullen. "And our message is not so fast," added Donnelly. "There needs to be a lot of questions asked before we pass an LGBT law for the military."
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Donnelly disagrees with Cheney even though she has ZERO military experience herself.
Obama Again Throws Gays Under the Bus on Same-Sex Marriage

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President Obama says he opposes same-sex marriage for religious reasons. Fourteen years ago, however, while a churchgoing Christian and a state legislative candidate, he endorsed the right of gays and lesbians to marry. Sponsors of Proposition 8, California's ban on same-sex marriage, cited Obama's current position in their 2008 campaign and have quoted him in their defense of the measure during a federal court trial in San Francisco.
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What has received much less attention is Obama's reversal of the position he once held backing same-sex marriage - the position still held by the church he attended for most of his adult life. Obama's reference to his religious convictions about marriage also contrasts with the position of the denomination with which he has been most closely associated, the United Church of Christ.
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In 2005, the United Church of Christ's governing General Synod passed a resolution endorsing "equal marriage rights for couples regardless of gender." The church, with 1.1 million members, is the largest U.S. denomination to support same-sex marriage.
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At the federal court trial of a lawsuit challenging Prop. 8, lawyers for the measure's sponsors have cited Obama's opposition to same-sex marriage as evidence that people who favor a traditional view of marriage are not necessarily prejudiced against gays and lesbians.
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Legally, the distinction is crucial - if Chief U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker, who is hearing the case without a jury, decides that discrimination was the main motivation behind Prop. 8, he could overturn the measure without having to decide whether gays and lesbians have a constitutional right to marry.
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Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California, dismissed the president's shifting stance as "pure politics." "When he was running for office in Chicago and wanted strong support from the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) community, he made it clear he supported full equality," Kors said. "Since he has continued to seek higher office, he has changed his position for the worse. "It's especially appalling that he is citing his religious beliefs as grounds for his public government position on the civil marriage issue because he knows better," Kors said.
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Personally, I will know better than to trust Obama in the future. I find it most galling that my CIVIL legal rights are subjected to the religious beliefs of others who make a mockery of the United States Constitution. Once again, I have to wonder whether or not a world without religion might not be a better place.
What's Wrong With American Coservatives?

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I just learned a pretty staggering fact. If the Tories win the next election in Britain by just a one vote majority, there will likely be 15 openly gay Conservative MPs in the next Parliament. . . . In the US, there are no openly gay Republican representatives or Senators - fewer than in the past. The closet cases, like Larry Craig, are just sad shells of human beings, or being hounded out by homophobic primary campaigns, like Charlie Crist. Heck, the British Tories are far ahead of gay inclusion than the American Democrats - and support military service and full legal equality in relationships. And they sure have more courage in making the case.
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Remind me why I moved to the land of the free? To lose freedoms? To watch conservatism calcify into anti-gay bigotry as one of its binding principles? To see a newly elected and allegedly moderate governor of Virginia actually rescind previous protections for gay people employed by state government - so that the gay people who work for their own government must live in constant fear of being fired solely for being gay? The GOP is going backward so fast it's giving this Tory whiplash.
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British Tories believe that including gay people in the British Conservative Party, supporting their commitments to one another, and celebrating their service to their country in the military are essentially conservative ideas and are integral to the Tory plans to win the coming British election.
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As I have said before, once the boyfriend's parents and my mother are no longer living, we are likely to leave Virginia for a more gay friendly locale. Increasingly, I wonder whether or not such a move will also include leaving the USA.
I just learned a pretty staggering fact. If the Tories win the next election in Britain by just a one vote majority, there will likely be 15 openly gay Conservative MPs in the next Parliament. . . . In the US, there are no openly gay Republican representatives or Senators - fewer than in the past. The closet cases, like Larry Craig, are just sad shells of human beings, or being hounded out by homophobic primary campaigns, like Charlie Crist. Heck, the British Tories are far ahead of gay inclusion than the American Democrats - and support military service and full legal equality in relationships. And they sure have more courage in making the case.
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Remind me why I moved to the land of the free? To lose freedoms? To watch conservatism calcify into anti-gay bigotry as one of its binding principles? To see a newly elected and allegedly moderate governor of Virginia actually rescind previous protections for gay people employed by state government - so that the gay people who work for their own government must live in constant fear of being fired solely for being gay? The GOP is going backward so fast it's giving this Tory whiplash.
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British Tories believe that including gay people in the British Conservative Party, supporting their commitments to one another, and celebrating their service to their country in the military are essentially conservative ideas and are integral to the Tory plans to win the coming British election.
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As I have said before, once the boyfriend's parents and my mother are no longer living, we are likely to leave Virginia for a more gay friendly locale. Increasingly, I wonder whether or not such a move will also include leaving the USA.
Bob McDonnell's Vicious Budget Priorities

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After reviewing his [McDonnell's] proposal to pare $2.2 billion from the budget, some human-service advocates question the governor's intentions. McDonnell's suggestions show "an absolute disregard in investments for our future, while... his spending demonstrates an appetite for more corporate takeover in Richmond," said Doug Smith, executive director of the Virginia Interfaith Center for Public Policy.
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Smith takes exception to cuts McDonnell recommended for school meals, homeless people, juvenile crime prevention, and a state insurance program for low-income children and pregnant women. By proposing those cuts while asking the legislature to approve tens of millions in funding to attract business to Virginia with incentives and tax credits, "Bob McDonnell is choosing business over people in this budget," Smith argued.
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Trish O'Brien, executive director of a human services organization called CHIP/Healthy Families in Chesapeake, said that if legislators approve the proposed cuts, she will lose half of her staff members, who check on 3,000 children in at-risk families throughout Chesapeake.
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Some programs that would be slashed or eliminated would save relatively little money. For example, a teen pregnancy prevention program in Norfolk, Portsmouth, and five other areas would be ended to save $900,000.
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State Sen. Janet Howell, D-Fairfax County, said McDonnell's proposed reductions slice "the heart and soul" out of state government. Particularly upsetting to state Sen. Louise Lucas, D-Portsmouth, is the possible cut to a school meals program. "To even put school lunches on the table has got to be the most insensitive thought of the session, because that school lunch is the only decent meal some of these kids are going to get in a day's time," Lucas said.
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The cuts to social services, mental health services and health insurance programs would fray the safety net of a growing number of Hampton Roads residents, according to Betty Wade Coyle, executive director of Prevent Child Abuse Hampton Roads. "It's scaling back direct services to children and to the most vulnerable citizens in the community."
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Maureen Hollowell, who advocates for disabled people through the Norfolk-based Endependence Center, said 6,000 disabled and elderly people who receive services through a "consumer directed" program that allows them to hire their own personal care assistants would lose their funding under the governor's proposals.
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Many of us tried to warn that Bob McDonnell is no moderate, but few would listen. I hope voters take a good look at the GOP's priorities when it comes to viewing citizens as basically disposable goods. WWJD??
After reviewing his [McDonnell's] proposal to pare $2.2 billion from the budget, some human-service advocates question the governor's intentions. McDonnell's suggestions show "an absolute disregard in investments for our future, while... his spending demonstrates an appetite for more corporate takeover in Richmond," said Doug Smith, executive director of the Virginia Interfaith Center for Public Policy.
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Smith takes exception to cuts McDonnell recommended for school meals, homeless people, juvenile crime prevention, and a state insurance program for low-income children and pregnant women. By proposing those cuts while asking the legislature to approve tens of millions in funding to attract business to Virginia with incentives and tax credits, "Bob McDonnell is choosing business over people in this budget," Smith argued.
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Trish O'Brien, executive director of a human services organization called CHIP/Healthy Families in Chesapeake, said that if legislators approve the proposed cuts, she will lose half of her staff members, who check on 3,000 children in at-risk families throughout Chesapeake.
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Some programs that would be slashed or eliminated would save relatively little money. For example, a teen pregnancy prevention program in Norfolk, Portsmouth, and five other areas would be ended to save $900,000.
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State Sen. Janet Howell, D-Fairfax County, said McDonnell's proposed reductions slice "the heart and soul" out of state government. Particularly upsetting to state Sen. Louise Lucas, D-Portsmouth, is the possible cut to a school meals program. "To even put school lunches on the table has got to be the most insensitive thought of the session, because that school lunch is the only decent meal some of these kids are going to get in a day's time," Lucas said.
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The cuts to social services, mental health services and health insurance programs would fray the safety net of a growing number of Hampton Roads residents, according to Betty Wade Coyle, executive director of Prevent Child Abuse Hampton Roads. "It's scaling back direct services to children and to the most vulnerable citizens in the community."
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Maureen Hollowell, who advocates for disabled people through the Norfolk-based Endependence Center, said 6,000 disabled and elderly people who receive services through a "consumer directed" program that allows them to hire their own personal care assistants would lose their funding under the governor's proposals.
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Many of us tried to warn that Bob McDonnell is no moderate, but few would listen. I hope voters take a good look at the GOP's priorities when it comes to viewing citizens as basically disposable goods. WWJD??
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Is Repeal of DADT in Peril Due to a Leadership Vacuum at the Top?

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[D]espite the military's move to relax and soon do away with "don't ask, don't tell," repeal in Congress is in grave peril. This is so even though the much-vaunted supermajority in the senate is not necessary to repeal the current policy. As Sen. Carl Levin, the Chairman of the Armed Services Committee explained to his colleague, Sen. Joe Lieberman, an amendment to repeal the policy can be added to the must-pass Defense Authorization bill, which would turn the tables on the "no-to-everything" Republicans: the amendment would require a supermajority not to pass, but to remove, meaning that in order to keep the ban in place, the GOP would have to block the entire Pentagon spending bill, publicly undercutting the military.
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[A]s Servicemembers United has outlined in a memo, legislation for repeal does not have to wait for the study results because the issue at hand is not whether, but how, to end the ban. Legislative repeal could accommodate the Pentagon's requested timeline for further study, while locking the fact of repeal into place by the end of 2011.
So what's the hold up? President Obama has said he will work with Congress "this year" to lift the ban. (Sen. Levin could put repeal into the Chairman's mark, but it's not clear he has the incentive to do so.) But Obama has also said he'd like Congress to take the lead. Sound familiar? In an interview in 2009, Obama finally acknowledged that this very same tactic with healthcare was a mistake: . . . Sure enough, despite momentum toward repeal of the gay ban, the airwaves are beginning to fill with balderdash about openly gay service leading to a draft and, horror of horrors, government endorsement of tattoos.
So why on earth would the President take the same failed tack with reforming the gay ban? Why not put real teeth into his promise by telling the Pentagon to put repeal in the Authorization bill? Probably because this champion of a "new day" in politics continues to suffer from the Democrats' longtime aversion to taking the lead on gay rights, out of fear that culture warriors will exploit their position--never mind that Democrats lose more power by appearing bereft of principles and deliverables than by appearing to support equal treatment.
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It's also not helping that the gay community has too often given the President a pass on leading on this issue. Yes, Congress has to pass repeal to get this law off the books, but that process should begin with Obama telling the Pentagon to put repeal in the Authorization bill. And for that to happen, gay groups will need to let the White House know that the status quo is not acceptable. Bloggers this week called for the President to take the lead, but also focused their attention on the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the most powerful gay rights group in the world, which has been accused of championing repeal publicly, while privately assuring the White House that it can continue to go slow.
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If President Obama is serious about lifting the ban in his first term, he should put repeal into the 2011 Defense Authorization bill. If the military brass can call for an end to the ban, and if Republicans Dick Cheney and Colin Powell can join them in supporting this step, surely Democrats and gay groups should be on the frontlines of pressing for real action.
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As readers know, I have given Obama few passes since he signaled that he was throwing LGBT Americans under the bus as far back as the Inauguration when Obama insulted LGBT Americans by having fat tub of lard, Christo-fascist Rick Warren give the invocation. But as mentioned above, I am not the only one fed up with Obama's refusal to provide the strong leadership he said he'd provide throughout the 2008 campaign. Here are highlights on the CNN poll that shows most Americans currently would not vote to return Obama to the White House:
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Do you think Barack Obama deserves to be re-elected, or not? If you're like most Americans, your answer is "No," according to a poll released on Tuesday by CNN. The perception was even worse for members of Congress nationwide -- but respondents still indicated they were likely to re-elect their current Representative. With identical numbers for all Americans as well as for just registered voters, 52 percent said the President does not deserve to be re-elected
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Whether or not respondents felt they deserved re-election, if forced to vote for a Congressional candidate today, 47 percent would pick the Republican candidate while only 45 percent would pick the Democrat. That portion of the survey had a margin of error of 3 percent.
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Obama and the Congressional Democrats were given a perhaps once in a life time opportunity to deliver on what voters wanted. They failed to deliver and the Democrats may well suffer a well deserved bloodbath in November. When is Obama going to wake the Hell up??
Misplaced Catholic Church Priorities
Several news stories today serve to underscore the severely misplaced priorities and sensibilities of the Roman Catholic Church. The first is a story from the Belfast Telegraph that reports on the outrage from the victims of clerical sexual abuse in Ireland in response to the Vatican's do nothing approach to bishops and high clergy who knowingly covered up the sexual abuse of children and youth - literally for many decades. While the Vatican's supposedly "unprecedented" meeting with all 24 bishops from Ireland caused many to have high expectations that at long last corrective action might occur, the reality has been more crocodile tears from Pope Benedict XVI and no meaningful punitive action toward guilty bishops. Here are some highlights:
*Victims of clerical sex abuse last night accused the Pope of “washing his hands” of the scandals that have rocked the Catholic Church in Ireland. Abuse survivors condemned the Pope Benedict XVI for not acknowledging that senior clergy covered up decades of sickening abuse.
*They said the Pontiff's unprecedented two-day summit with the 24 Irish bishops in the Vatican in Rome was “a charade” that had achieved nothing. . . . in a Vatican statement, the Pope specifically failed to acknowledge the cover-up or formally apologise for the abuse — leading to widespread condemnation from victims last night.
*The Pope also failed to sack under-fire Bishop of Galway Martin Drennan — or even formally accept the resignations of other bishops, who were criticised in the Murphy Report for their mishandling of cases of sexual abuse. The Pontiff also ignored the failure of the Papal Nuncio to co-operate with the Murphy Commission's investigation into abuse in Dublin.
*Maeve Lewis, of support group One in Four, hit back and said the Pope's response was inadequate. “It is deeply insulting to survivors to suggest they were abused due to failures of faith, rather than because sex offending priests were moved from parish to parish, and those in authority looked away while further children were sexually abused,” she said.
*Even as the Vatican found itself unable/unwilling to take justified punitive action against clerics guilty of criminal offenses or at a minimum acting as accessories to crimes, elsewhere the Catholic Church continued its anti-gay jihad and in the case of the Archdiocese of Washington, D.C., threw children under the bus rather than comply with the District's soon to be effective gay marriage laws. At the Vatican, Cardinal Carlo Caffarra of Bologna made the statement that public officials who recognize the separation of Church and state and openly support same-sex marriage cannot consider themselves to be Catholic. Indeed, the good cardinal said that such officials needed to be excommunicated. Here are highlights from the Boston Pilot, a leading Catholic newspaper:
*It's impossible for the Catholic faith and support for putting homosexual unions on equal footing with marriage to coexist in one's conscience -- the two contradict each other," said the note. Even more serious would be the case of a Catholic lawmaker who introduces a measure or votes in favor of a law that supports gay marriage, he said. "This is a publicly and gravely immoral act," he wrote.
*Cardinal Caffarra, who holds a number of positions in the Roman Curia including as a member of the Pontifical Council for the Family, the Pontifical Academy for Life and the Vatican's highest tribunal, known as the Supreme Court of the Apostolic Signature, wrote that the consequences of same-sex marriage would be "devastating."
*I guess the dear Cardinal doesn't believe being sexually abused wasn't devastating to abuse victims. Thus, the Church's position seems to be that covering up the sexual abuse of thousands of children and youth merits a slap on the wrist, but supporting gay marriage - something supported by legitimate medical and mental health experts - is grounds for excommunication. Something is seriously f*cked up in this analysis. As if anything else was needed to further confirm that the Catholic Church cares literally nothing for the welfare of children, the Archdiocese of Washington, D.C., announced that it has ended its 80-year-old foster-care program in the District rather than license same-sex couples to care for children needing a stable and loving home. Here are some highlights from the Washington Post:
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The Catholic Archdiocese of Washington has ended its 80-year-old foster-care program in the District rather than license same-sex couples, the first fallout from a bitter debate over the city's move to legalize same-sex marriage.
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The church and some experts said the city's measure has narrower exemptions for religious groups than other same-sex marriage laws across the country, particularly when it comes to requiring benefits for the same-sex partners of employees. City officials knew of no other faith-based groups that said their city contracts were in jeopardy.
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The Catholic Church seems Hell bent on marginalizing itself in the developed world and becoming a third world religion where ignorance and lack of education continue to leave members of the laity unable to see the failings and moral bankruptcy of the Church. Meanwhile, I hope the media will continue to shine the spotlight of day on the dark moral sickness of the Church leadership, including Benedict XVI.
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The Catholic Archdiocese of Washington has ended its 80-year-old foster-care program in the District rather than license same-sex couples, the first fallout from a bitter debate over the city's move to legalize same-sex marriage.
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The church and some experts said the city's measure has narrower exemptions for religious groups than other same-sex marriage laws across the country, particularly when it comes to requiring benefits for the same-sex partners of employees. City officials knew of no other faith-based groups that said their city contracts were in jeopardy.
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The Catholic Church seems Hell bent on marginalizing itself in the developed world and becoming a third world religion where ignorance and lack of education continue to leave members of the laity unable to see the failings and moral bankruptcy of the Church. Meanwhile, I hope the media will continue to shine the spotlight of day on the dark moral sickness of the Church leadership, including Benedict XVI.
New Blog Comment Policy

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I do not want to appear petulant, but asking that comment authors - especially those who seek to engage in personal attacks and/or threats - identify themselves in order to have a comment published is not asking too much.
Time for President Obama to Show Some Leadership

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While we're passing out the blame, however, let's not forget a heaping helping for the public. I can genuflect with the best of them before "the basic decency and wisdom of the American people," but the truth is that on many issues these days, the American people are badly confused. They want Wall Street to be reined in, but they're dead set against more regulation. They want everyone to have access to affordable health insurance, but they're wary of expanding the role of government.
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Viewed in that context, the current political disarray need not be an insurmountable problem for President Obama, but rather could represent a golden opportunity to demonstrate the leadership the country needs and craves. He will not demonstrate that leadership by running around to carefully staged events in which he tells ordinary voters what he thinks they want to hear. Nor will he demonstrate it by redoubling efforts of his PR war room to respond to every attack or piece of Republican disinformation with overwhelming rhetorical force. Rather, the real challenge is whether the president can strengthen the bond of trust between himself and the American people by having the courage to tell the hard truths and make the hard decisions, irrespective of short-term political consequences and the tut-tutting of the commentariat.
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Over the past year, Obama's singular mistake was to think he could rely on the Democratic leadership and a Democratic majority in Congress to deliver on his electoral mandate. Caught in crossfire between the House and Senate, liberals and centrists, Democratic special interests and independent voters, he wound up raising too much doubt about his most fundamental promise -- to change the way business is done in Washington. Worse still, he wound up convincing members of Congress that he needed them more than they needed him.
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It should be obvious now that the president cannot leave it to Congress to sort things out. They can't and they won't, as evidenced most recently by the Senate fiasco involving the so-called jobs bill. For the next several months, he needs to create a sense of urgency and expectation, consulting widely and privately with Republicans and Democrats and interested parties who care more about getting things done than winning the next election. . . . And then he needs to park himself in the President's Room at the Capitol, along with top aides and Cabinet members, and refuse to leave until he has put together working majorities for each proposal -- with the help of legislative leaders if possible, but without them if necessary.
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By July 4, it will be over. He will have either a legislative record that ensures continuation of a working majority in Congress or a legitimate grievance that he can take to the voters in November in search of one. Either way, he'll be in a better place politically than he is now.
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This Presidents' Day week, we celebrate the leadership of George Washington and Abraham Lincoln, who confronted far worse division and dissent in their times. The reason we remember them as great presidents is that they threw off the yoke of party loyalty, defied popular opinion and used the full weight of their office to do what had to be done. They understood, or came to understand, an important truth: that only after they had demonstrated that they were willing to lead, and lead boldly, were the people willing to follow and drag Congress along with them.
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Obama, are you listening???
Andrew Sullivan Headlines Equality Virginia Commonwealth Dinner

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Last year, they packed a room at the Greater Richmond Convention Center. On Saturday, May 1, they’re sure to fill up the Marriott this time around. Equality Virginia’s Commonwealth Dinner is one of the most anticipated social events of Richmond. You can check out our post-event coverage last year here.
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This year, writer and political commentator Andrew Sullivan provides the evening’s entertainment. He’s appeared on Real Time with Bill Maher, The Chris Matthews Show, Face the Nation and maintains the popular Atlantic blog, the Daily Dish.
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Leading up to this year’s dinner, EV hosts an opening reception for their second juried art show on April 8 at the Gay Community Center of Richmond. Artwork will be available for auction the night of the dinner.
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Ticket holders also get the chance to take a private tour of the new wing of the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts on Sunday, May 2 as part of the museum’s grand opening weekend. Tickets are $110 per person through March 1, then go up to $135. Tickets can be purchased here. GayRVA is a media sponsor of this year’s event.
Bob McDonnell's Message: Virginia is Not Open for Business

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Virginia Gov. Robert F. McDonnell has signed an executive order barring discrimination in the state workforce on grounds that include race, sex, religion and age, but not sexual orientation. The order, which McDonnell (R) signed Feb. 5, cements federal law, which prohibits discrimination on those grounds. It also follows McDonnell's long-standing position on the issue of legal protections based on sexual orientation.
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The DNC weighs in: “It says a lot about the Republican party that they would anoint as their ‘rising star’ someone who in 2010 is actually stripping away from Americans legal protections against discrimination. Bob McDonnell is proving his critics right. He said he’d focus on creating jobs, not social issues. But, one of his first acts as Governor was to make it easier for a fellow citizen to be denied a job and he did so as an adherent to a right-wing ideology that allows for such discriminatory behavior. McDonnell’s decision is just plain wrong in any context, but especially so in this economic climate.
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Queerty in turn has the following commentary:
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"Gov. McDonnell has signed a new executive order that strips former protections from discrimination based on sexual orientation for employees of the Commonwealth of Virginia, while legislation to protect those employees has died in the state’s legislature.
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To join the European Union, a country MUST provide LGBT non-discrimination protections (as must EU based companies). Thus, Virginia could not qualify for EU membership were it a sovereign nation. Does Taliban Bob really believe that he's making Virginia attractive to progressive and innovative businesses, or is he merely doing The Family Foundation's bidding? It seems the later is McDonnell's true concern.
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Blog Swarm: Ask HRC To Demand Obama Work To Repeal DADT This Year

OUR MESSAGE TO HRC IS SIMPLE:Publicly demand that President Obama take the lead in getting DADT repealed this year.
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1) That means the President needs to state publicly that he wants Congress to repeal DADT this year; and
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2) The President needs to take the lead in working with Congress to make sure the repeal happens.
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HRC Front Desk: (202) 628-4160
TTY: (202) 216-1572
Toll-Free: (800) 777-4723
HRC Web site comment page.
General membership email at hrc: membership@hrc.org
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As Joe at Joe By God correctly notes, Obama CAN do something if he would but choose to do so (the problem to date is that he has chosen to do nothing):
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Some may say that there is little the President can do, or that this is up to Congress now. That is simply untrue. The President can send a powerful signal that he wants the repeal done this year. He can include the repeal of DADT in the Defense Budget he sends to Congress in the next few months. If the President is serious about keeping his promises to our community, now is his chance to prove it. . . . As we painfully learned last year during health care reform, nothing happens in Congress unless the President leads. And when the President doesn't lead, disaster is guaranteed.
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I urge readers to take action and contact HRC. Among the sponsoring blogs are the following:
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Joe Sudbay and John Aravosis, AMERICAblog
Pam Spaulding, Pam's House Blend
Michelangelo Signorile, Sirius OutQ & the Gist
Markos Moulitsas, DailyKos
Andy Towle, TowleRoad
Joe Jervis, Joe My GodBil Browning, Bilerico
Taylor Marsh, TaylorMarsh.com
Dan Savage, Slog
Inside the Mind of Tea Party Crazies

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The Tea Party movement has become a platform for conservative populist discontent, a force in Republican politics for revival, as it was in the Massachusetts Senate election, or for division. But it is also about the profound private transformation of people like Mrs. Stout, people who not long ago were not especially interested in politics, yet now say they are bracing for tyranny.
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These people are part of a significant undercurrent within the Tea Party movement that has less in common with the Republican Party than with the Patriot movement, a brand of politics historically associated with libertarians, militia groups, anti-immigration advocates and those who argue for the abolition of the Federal Reserve.
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Urged on by conservative commentators, waves of newly minted activists are turning to once-obscure books and Web sites and discovering a set of ideas long dismissed as the preserve of conspiracy theorists, interviews conducted across the country over several months show.
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Loose alliances like Friends for Liberty are popping up in many cities, forming hybrid entities of Tea Parties and groups rooted in the Patriot ethos. These coalitions are not content with simply making the Republican Party more conservative. They have a larger goal — a political reordering that would drastically shrink the federal government and sweep away not just Mr. Obama, but much of the Republican establishment, starting with Senator John McCain.
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In many regions, including here in the inland Northwest, tense struggles have erupted over whether the Republican apparatus will co-opt these new coalitions or vice versa. Tea Party supporters are already singling out Republican candidates who they claim have “aided and abetted” what they call the slide to tyranny.
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The ebbs and flows of the Tea Party ferment are hardly uniform. It is an amorphous, factionalized uprising with no clear leadership and no centralized structure. Not everyone flocking to the Tea Party movement is worried about dictatorship. Some have a basic aversion to big government, or Mr. Obama, or progressives in general.
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They are frequently led by political neophytes who prize independence and tell strikingly similar stories of having been awakened by the recession. Their families upended by lost jobs, foreclosed homes and depleted retirement funds, they said they wanted to know why it happened and whom to blame. That is often the point when Tea Party supporters say they began listening to Glenn Beck. . . . Many describe emerging from their research as if reborn to a new reality. Some have gone so far as to stock up on ammunition, gold and survival food in anticipation of the worst.
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It is a sprawling rebellion, but running through it is a narrative of impending tyranny. This narrative permeates Tea Party Web sites, Facebook pages, Twitter feeds and YouTube videos. It is a prominent theme of their favored media outlets and commentators, and it connects the disparate issues that preoccupy many Tea Party supporters — from the concern that the community organization Acorn is stealing elections to the belief that Mr. Obama is trying to control the Internet and restrict gun ownership.
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WorldNetDaily.com trumpets “exclusives” reporting that the Army is seeking “Internment/Resettlement” specialists. On ResistNet.com, bloggers warn that Mr. Obama is trying to convert Interpol, the international police organization, into his personal police force. They call on “fellow Patriots” to “grab their guns.”
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The article goes on for a number of pages. The bottom line is that many of these people are living in an alternate reality and that those who have whipped them into a frenzy have been irresponsible to say the least.
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