Thoughts on Life, Love, Politics, Hypocrisy and Coming Out in Mid-Life
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Abstinence makes the lust grow stronger
My blogger friend over at Magic Bellybutton has a great parody of the abstinance only education crowd. Rather that cut and paste her work, check it out on her blog site: http://mymagicbellybutton.blogspot.com/2007/09/abstinence-makes-lust-grow-stronger.html She and I are definitely of like minds when it comes to the Christianists and Chimperator Bush.Roommate Wanted
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Author John Grisham: Bush administration built around 'bad people with evil intent'

Newark Triple Murders -- Another Laramie in 2007?
Some leaders in Newark's LGBT community are calling on mayor Cory Booker, the City Council and police to answer the question: "Why is the recent execution style slaying of three young people in Newark not being investigated as a hate crime?"
We are told that friends of the victims have come forward to ask why the identities of the murdered teenagers, and the lone survivor, have been suppressed, claiming that "at least one or more of the victims were gay". Media reports indicate that two of the victims were sexually molested before being killed. Though authorities suggest robbery was the motive, some in the community say they were targeted because they were gay.
Feds target Blackwater in weapons probe
More trouble for Blackwater USA, based in Moyock, North Carolina, just south of the Virginia state line from here. As the Virginian Pilot is reporting (http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_BLACKWATER_PROBE?SITE=VANOV&SECTION=HOME), it appears that Blackwater employees may have been involved in weapon sales to terrorists (as if these mercenaries do not get paid enough already - i.e., in some cases $1,000+ per day). I have a real problem with the USA using what are basically hired mercenaries. Here are some story highlights:Cashwell and Grumiaux pleaded guilty in early 2007 to possession of stolen firearms that had been shipped in interstate or foreign commerce, and aided and abetted another in doing so, according to court papers viewed by The Associated Press. In their plea agreements, which call for a maximum sentence of 10 years in prison and a $250,000 fine, the men agreed to testify in any future proceedings.
Ministers who have brought scandal to the Southern Baptist Convention
In follow up to my post yesterday about the sex abuse issues being ignored by the Southern Baptist Convention, I stumbled upon the following website (http://stopbaptistpredators.org/index.htm) that goes into great detail on this issue. Here is a quote: These are just SOME of the men who have brought scandal to the Southern Baptist Convention. Many other Baptist clergy have turned a blind eye or helped to cover up clergy sex abuse, but the list would get way too long if we included those...and yet that conduct is also scandalous. Write to the SBC Executive Committee and urge them to keep a database of ALL ministers convicted, confessed, or credibly accused.
Daniel Earl Allmond* (FL)
Dale "Dickie" Amyx (TX)
Andrew Argent* (TX)
Donald Chrisler Batson* (SC)
John Bonine** (CA)
Mark Lewis Brooks (MO)
Lonnie Broome (FL)
Timothy Neal Byars** (TN)
Jerry Dale Carver** (TX)
Ollin Collins+ (TX)
Shawn Davies* (MO, KY, MI)
Gregory Dempsey* (TN)
Charles Dickerson**(CA)
Garett Dykes* (AL)
Stephen Lee Edmonds**(deacon)(FL)
Jermey Patrick Gable**(FL)
Andres Garcia* (CA)
Luis Federico Garcia* (AL)
Tommy Gilmore (FL, GA, TX)
Brian "Doug" Goodrich, Jr.* (NC)
Robert Gray (FL)
James Griffin** (LA)
Steven Haney** (TN)
Jeffrey Hannah* (IL)
Roy Mace Honeycutt** (NC)
John Hubner* (ME, SC)
Joshua Ross Hyles* (TX)
Fritzner Jean**(FL)
Michael Lee Jones* (TX)
Joel Dean Joslin* (TX)
John Lau* (NY, Army)
Stephen Livingston** (TX)
John O. McKay* (TX)
Mark Woodson Mangrum** (TN)
Leslie Mason* (IL)
Doug Myers* (FL, AL, MD)
Larry Nuell Neathery* (TX)
Kevin Ogle* (GA, SC)
Kenneth Payne* (VA)
Larry Reynolds (TX)
Robert N. Riddle (AL, FL)*(fraud on elderly)
Morris David Roberts* (TX)
Frank Sizemore* (TX)
Phillip Glenn Terrell** (GA)
Sam Underwood (TX)
George "Tom" Wade, Jr.* (AK, Int'l Mission Bd)
Kenneth Ward* (TX)
Stephen Lyle Whittaker*** (FL)
Paul Williams (TN)
Charles "Rick" Willits* (TX)
*Convicted
** Charged
***Deceased
+ Not only a pastor, but board chairman of Southern Baptists' largest seminary
Friday, September 21, 2007
The gay voter's guide to the GOP
Today's issue of Salon Magazine (http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2007/09/21/gay_gop/) has a a funny article with the above title that is worth a look for some humor and good analysis as well of the GOP presidential field. While somewhat tongue in cheek, it does hit home on various issues. I hope my fellow blogger, The Pink Elephant (see my blog roll),enjoys the piece. The following excerpts give an idea of the article's tone:It doesn't really matter. Whatever the cause, you are in a quandary. Your only viable choice in the coming presidential election is to vote for a Republican, and that means voting for a party that has spent much of the last decade casting you and your way of life as an assault on the wholesome goodness of the American family. "Homosexuality is incompatible with military service," declared the 2004 GOP platform. "Attempts to redefine marriage in a single state or city could have serious consequences throughout the country."
German bishop apologises over paedophile priest
Yet another instance of the Catholic Church not being sufficiently vigilant in protecting children from predator priests (http://uk.reuters.com/article/topNews/idUKL2185061620070921). I have not seen any scientific research that has found that pedophilia can be cured. It would be most interesting to know who gave Kramer a "clean bill of health." A Catholic Church affiliated clinic like the ones in the USA that failed to cure pedophile priests? If past behavior is any indication, the Vatican will no doubt refrain from commenting. Here are the details:Federal Appeals Court: Transsexuals Have No Civil Rights
Unfortunately, this 10th Circuit Court of Appeal ruling should surprise no one. Unless and until the Employment Non-Discrimination Act is passed by Congress, neither transsexuals nor others in the LGBT community have civil rights protections in the majority of the states within the USA. In Virginia, except for state agency employees purportedly protected by an executive order of the Governor, LGBT individuals can be fired at will based solely on their sexual orientation. Meanwhile, rabid Christianists who work ceaselessly to keep gays as second class citizens or worse DO have non-discrimination (as well as hate crime ) protections based on their religious beliefs. Here are a few high lights from 365gay.com's coverage:Thursday, September 20, 2007
SNAP Calls for 'Open and Transparent' Study of Sex Abuse by Baptist Clergy
It looks like the Southern Baptist Convention has not learned much from the Roman Catholic Church clergy abuse scandal/disaster. A victims' advocacy and support group on Monday asked Southern Baptist Convention leaders to seek input from outside experts and victims in developing a denomination-wide response to sexual abuse by clergy:In June SBC messengers referred a motion to the SBC Executive Committee requesting "a feasibility study concerning the development of a database of Southern Baptist clergy and staff who have been credibly accused of, personally confessed to, or legally been convicted of sexual harassment or abuse and that such a database be accessible to Southern Baptist churches."
"Baptist believers have spoken, and it is time for their leaders to listen," Christa Brown, Baptist outreach leader for the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP), said in a sidewalk press conference outside SBC headquarters in Nashville, Tennesse.
Since starting a Web site, Stop Baptist Predators, Brown said she has talked to "well over a hundred" survivors of clergy sex abuse, most who didn't know where else to turn. With her volunteer-produced and unfunded Web site getting such a response, she wondered how many more victims would come forward if the SBC put its influence and funding behind a similar project. Clohessy said it was "very sad" to hear "people that have tried to turn their personal pain into child protection so mischaracterized."
Pennsylvania Caregivers of 7 Held in Home Charged
Here's another case of wingnut "Christians" I suppose reflecting Christ's love. ABC News has the story here: http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=3627011 What is amazing is that social services or some governmental agency was not monitoring this couple who were receiving $9,000 per month for caring for the individuals they victimized. Here are a few highlights:The seven victims had unsupervised access to prescription medications and rat poison, and one of the older children was forced to empty the basement's portable toilet daily by hauling a bucket upstairs, according to the affidavit.
Episcopal Bishops in Key Meeting on Gays
Starting on Thursday in New Orleans, Episcopal bishops will take up the most direct demand yet that they reverse course: Anglican leaders want an unequivocal pledge that Episcopalians won't consecrate another gay bishop or approve official prayers for same-gender couples. If the church fails to do so by Sept. 30, their full membership in the Anglican Communion could be lost.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
War President - NOT
I cannot state it any better than Andrew Sullivan has here (http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2007/09/war-council.html) as to why I believe Chimperator Bush will go down in history as one of the nation's worse presidents:
"Previous war-presidents have gathered opponents into their cabinets, reached out to estranged former allies, engaged in aggressive diplomacy to maximize effectiveness and rallied the whole country for the fight. What does this one do? Gets a bunch of right-wing "journalists" into the White House to spread some partisan talking points. What a fucking disgrace this man and his journalistic lackeys are. Excuse my language. But I can't take this any longer. We're at war; and he's still playing Rove's game."
I may not garee with Andrew on evry topic, but on this one he is right on the mark.
Maryland's Gay Marriage Ruling: Can You Spell Confused?
But three justices said the majority is willfully ignoring both social and legal change, including a long string of moves by Maryland's legislature to assure that gays receive the same guarantees of fundamental rights as other citizens.
Two justices, Chief Justice Robert Bell and Irma Raker, said that while there is no right to gay marriage, gays must be granted the same rights of marriage as any other citizen. The dissenters said they would have adopted the conclusion of New Jersey's top court, which ruled that "to comply with this constitutional mandate [of equal rights for all], the Legislature must either amend the marriage statutes to include same-sex couples or create a parallel statutory structure, which will provide for, on equal terms, the rights and benefits enjoyed and burdens and obligations borne by married couples."
Grateful Mother and Accepting Dear Abby
Bush To Take Lead on Blackwater
Personally, I cannot help but wonder why the USA has been pushed to the point where it must depend on private security contractors as opposed to relying on the military and US security personnel. Was it some failed brain storm to save money or was it a mechanism to spread money among Bush loyalists and supporters? I would truly be interested in an complete answer. Here's Time's look at the current Blackwater USA mess:Mormon Beefcake Calendar - Men on a Mission
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
NJ Site Loses Tax Exemption After Refusing Civil Unions
I completely agree with the result in this matter (http://www.365gay.com/Newscon07/09/091807nj.htm): once you take public, taxpayer derived funds, you lose the right to discriminate against others based on your religious views. This is the same principal that has lead to the Boy Scouts losing the free use of public taxpayer supported property. If you want to discriminate, do not take public funds or expect public venues to be provide for free:Another Flawed Study That Will Be Used to Justify the "Choice Myth"
Stanton Jones and Mark Yarhouse have authored a new study on the alleged effectiveness of ex-gay programs entitled "Ex-Gays? A Longitudinal Study of Religiously Mediated Change in Sexual Orientation" that was unveiled at a press conference in Nashville. It was funded by Exodus International, which obviously has an interest in finding that a "cure" from homosexuality can occur. A very detailed review of the study, its methodology and flaws can be found here at the Box Turtle Bulletin (http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2007/09/17/785)
Jones and Yarhouse wanted to limit their study's participants to those who were in their first year of ex-gay ministry. But when they found that they were having trouble getting enough people to participate (they only found 57 subject who met this criteria), they expanded their study to include 41 subjects who had been involved in ex-gay ministries for between one to three years. The participants who had been in ex-gay ministries for less than a year are referred to as "Phase 1" subpopulation, and the 41 who were added to increase the sample size were labeled the "Phase 2" subpopulation.
Good Sex, a Source of Good Health
More bad news for the fundies. As this Washington Post story indicates (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/09/14/AR2007091402099.html?hpid=sec-health), a good sex life equates with good health. Maybe that explains in part why a story I noted in a prior post said that fundamentalist Christians were the most obese of any religious group. In any event, here are a few highlights of the story which will no doubt not be well received by Daddy Dobson or the frigid women of Concerned Women for America (or the gay sex obsessed men at CWA):New York Times to end paid Internet service
The trademark orange "T's" marking premium articles will begin disappearing Tuesday night, said the Web site's Vice President and General Manager Vivian Schiller. The move is an acknowledgment by The Times that making Web site visitors pay for content would not bring in as much money as making it available for free and supporting it with advertising.
"The more page views you have, the more you can sell," he said. "In the immediate moment it's a perfectly good idea."
August Foreclosures Zoom
Those in the real estate industry and others need to perhaps fasten their seat belts in preparation for a bumpy ride based on this CNN Money article (http://money.cnn.com/2007/09/17/real_estate/August_foreclosures_way_up/index.htm?cnn=yes):October is expected to be a peak month for hybrid adjustable rate mortgages (ARMs) to reset, with the interest rates on some $50 billion worth of loans poised to go up dramatically. In the past few months, the foreclosure story has become a tale of two regions. Some of the hardest hit states have traditionally been in the Midwest, where plant closings and job losses have hit the economy there hard.
The other region is the Sun Belt, which is showing even more significant foreclosure growth as out-sized price increases in the first half of the decade led to virtually unchecked real estate speculation. Nevada led all the other states in the rate of August foreclosure filings: one for every 165 households for a total of 6,197. Other hard-hit, sun-belt states were California (one in 224), Florida (one in 243), Georgia (one in 271), Arizona (one in 289), Colorado (one in 312) and Texas (one in 532).
Monday, September 17, 2007
Iraqi government vows to expel Blackwater over shootings
This article from the Virginian Pilot (http://content.hamptonroads.com/story.cfm?story=132634&ran=77335&tref=po) is interesting because (1) Blackwater is based in Moyock, North Carolina, about 20 miles south of here, and (2) it illustrates the crazy amounts of money (obscene in my opinion) being paid to private contractors in Iraq, often without any competitive bidding for the work. Here are a few highlights: In any event, any ouster of the company from Iraq likely would require the support of the State Department, which depends on Blackwater for security. The State Department did not comment on Blackwater’s status. Diplomatic security used to be provided by military personnel, but that is one of many tasks that have been farmed out to the private sector in recent years. By one count, some 180,000 civilian contractors are now working in Iraq – more than the number of U.S. combat troops.
Corporate Equality Index 2008
The sixth annual Corporate Equality Index put out by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation shows an unprecedented 195 major U.S. businesses earned the top rating of 100 percent, up from 138 last year - a 41 percent increase. Apparently, the wingnut boycotts led by the likes of "Rev." Wildmon are not having the deterant effect the fundies claim. Given my profession, I check to see how law firs ranked. The following law firms rank a perfect 100 score:Akin, Gump, Strauss, Hauer & Feld LLP 100
Alston & Bird LLP 100
Arnold & Porter LLP 100
Bingham McCutchen 100
Bryan Cave LLP 100
Cleary, Gottlieb, Steen & Hamilton LLP 100
Crowell & Moring LLP 100
Dewey Ballantine LLP 100
Dickstein Shapiro LLP 100
Dorsey & Whitney LLP 100
Faegre & Benson 100
Foley & Lardner LLP 100
Foley Hoag LLP 100
Heller Ehrman LLP 100
Holland & Knight LLP 100
Jenner & Block LLP 100
Kirkland & Ellis 100
Kramer Levin Naftalis & Frankel LLP 100
Latham & Watkins LLP 100
McDermott Will & Emery LLP 100
Mintz, Levin, Cohn, Ferris, Glovsky & Popeo 100
Morrison & Foerster LLP 100
Nixon Peabody LLP 100
O'Melveny & Myers LLP 100
Orrick, Herrington & Sutcliffe 100
Paul, Hastings, Janofsky & Walker LLP 100
Pillsbury Winthrop Shaw Pittman LLP 100
Powell Goldstein LLP 100
Sidley Austin LLP 100
Sonnenschein, Nath & Rosenthal 100
Baker & Daniels 95
Cadwalader, Wickersham & Taft 95
Cravath, Swaine & Moore LLP 95
Drinker Biddle & Reath LLP 95
King & Spalding 95
Seyfarth Shaw LLP 95
Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom LLP 95
Stoel Rives LLP 95
Weil, Gotshal & Manges 95
Manatt, Phelps & Phillips LLP 93
Robins, Kaplan, Miller & Ciresi 93
Debevoise & Plimpton 90
Edwards Angell Palmer & Dodge LLP 90
Fenwick & West LLP 90
Kilpatrick Stockton LLP 90
McCarter & English 90
Sullivan & Cromwell LLP 90
Troutman Sanders LLP 90
Baker & Botts 85
Gordon & Rees 85
Howrey Simon Arnold & White LLP 85
Katten Muchin Zavis 85
Kelley Drye & Warren LLP 85
Perkins Coie 85
Proskauer Rose LLP 85
Shook, Hardy & Bacon LLP 85
Steptoe & Johnson 85
Sutherland Asbill & Brennan LLP 85
Thompson Coburn 85
Willkie Farr & Gallagher 85
Wilson, Sonsini, Goodrich & Rosati 85
Winston & Strawn 85
Ballard, Spahr, Andrews & Ingersoll 80
Blackwell Sanders Peper Martin LLP 80
Covington & Burling 80
Duane Morris 80
Dykema Gossett 80
Fulbright & Jaworski LLP 80
Gibson, Dunn & Crutcher LLP 80
Hogan & Hartson 80
Kaye Scholer LLP 80
LeBoeuf, Lamb, Greene & MacRae 80
Lord, Bissell & Brook 80
Quarles & Brady 80
Schulte, Roth & Zabel LLP 80
Vinson & Elkins LLP 80
White & Case LLP 80
Wildman Harrold Allen & Dixon 80
Arent, Fox, Kintner, Plotkin & Kahn 75
Fish & Richardson 75
Haynes and Boone 75
Hunton & Williams 75
Sheppard Mullin Richter & Hampton 75
Wachtell, Lipton, Rosen & Katz 75
Chadbourne & Parke 70
Luce Forward Hamilton & Scripps LLP 70
Thelen Reid Brown Raysman & Steiner LLP 70
Andrews & Kurth LLP 65
Womble Carlyle Sandridge & Rice 65
Howard & Howard Attorneys PC 48
Finnegan, Henderson, Farabow, Garrett & Dunner 40















