I left the Catholic Church in early 2002 in the wake of the sex abuse scandal explosion in the Archdiocese of Boston. I had not been a casual Catholic. I had been an altar boy for 10 years and was involved in the Knights of Columbus and achieved the 4th Degree. But on finding that bishops, cardinals - and yes, popes - had known of the abuse of children and youths for decades (if not centuries) and viewed it as no big deal but for the bad PR for the Church. With three children of my own, I cannot comprehend the callousness of the celibate, self-centered, power hungry clergy to whom the rape and molestation of children and youths was no big deal. Yes, coming out as gay was an added reason to leave a gay-hating church, but ultimately I believed it was the only moral thing to do. Over time, the balance of my family has followed suit. An opinion piece in
The Week by a recent refugee from the Catholic Church lats out this moral argument. Here are excerpts:
Three months ago, I announced
I was leaving the Catholic Church. My reason was that the latest revelations in
the church's interminable sex abuse scandal had revealed "a repulsive
institution — or at least one permeated by repulsive human beings who reward
one another for repulsive acts, all the while deigning to lecture the world
about its sin."
Let's just say subsequent events haven't led me to regret
the decision.
That would include Wednesday's news that the offices of the
cardinal-archbishop of Galveston-Houston, who also happens to serve as
president of the United States Catholic bishops' conference, were raided
by "dozens of local and federal law enforcement officers … looking for
evidence in a clergy sexual abuse case." A couple of weeks ago, the
story
was the Vatican's decision to nix plans by the American bishops to devise some
kind of response to the scandal — on the grounds that it's mostly just a
conspiracy drummed up by troublemaking right-wing clerics and laypeople.
A week
or a month from now, the story is bound to be something arising
from the dozen or so investigations
underway by the Justice Department and attorneys general around
the country.
It's hardly surprising that writers deeply devoted to the Catholic Church
would reject the reasons for my decision to leave the church. . . . . As I say,
the response was unsurprising, even perfectly understandable. Though I do
wonder whether any of these apologists for the church quite grasps why I left
the church — and why so many others are likely to make the same move over the
coming months and years.
The Catholic Church does make extraordinarily high claims for itself — not
that its priests and bishops and cardinals and popes are angels but that the
church as an institution is, of all the churches that follow the teachings of
Jesus Christ, the one most fully and rightly ordered through time.
If I may be permitted some speculation of my own — this time of a
psychological variety — I'd like to suggest that those objecting to the
departure of fellow Catholics from the church may be moved to express those
objections because they recognize how weak and frankly unpersuasive such
ecclesiological claims really are. They are really arguing with themselves, in
other words, trying to muster reasons to continue affirming something that, at
a certain level, they fully recognize to be just a few millimeters away from
outright absurdity.
What's absurd? The claim that, of all the Christian churches, the Roman
church is the very best, the truest of all, the one most fully and rightly
ordered through time. That would be not only the church of the great diabolical
popes of the past (like John XII and Alexander VI and Boniface VIII and Leo X),
but also the church that in recent decades has seen literally thousands of
priests in countries across the globe accused of sexually abusing children —
271 of them in the archdiocese of Boston alone — with untold numbers of bishops
covering it up year after year after year. The number is untold, by the way,
because we are still nowhere near knowing just how many members of the Catholic
hierarchy around the world — all the way up to popes themselves — knew exactly
what was happening and responded like self-protective bureaucrats and PR flacks
out to protect a corporate brand from bad press.
It's become commonplace for Catholic laypeople to ask themselves why the
clergy has responded in the way it has to the scandal — how Pope John Paul II (
along
with Neuhaus) could have turned a blind eye to the myriad abuses committed
by
Marcial Maciel
Degollado; how Archbishop Cardinal Bernard Francis Law could have been
rewarded with a
cushy sinecure
at the Vatican as his "punishment" for basically overseeing a
decades-long child-rape gang in Boston; and how Theodore McCarrick could have
been promoted to one of the most powerful and prestigious positions in the
Catholic Church in the United States after decades of alleged sexual predation
with the full knowledge of (once again) untold numbers of priests, bishops, and
possibly popes.
The behavior is only mysterious if you assume that anyone in their place
would respond the way you and I would: with revulsion. But it isn't mysterious
at all if you assume what should be obvious by now to everyone: They just
didn't think it was such a big deal. Judging by the current stance of the
Vatican to the pope's pesky American critics, the character of that response
hasn't changed one bit down through the years.
[T]o believe that this particular church, of all the Christian
churches in the world, is the one most fully and rightly ordered through time,
over and above all of the others? You can't possibly be serious.
To react with anger and incredulity to this suggestion isn't to display
unrealistically high hopes or expectations about the church. It's to respond
reasonably to a claim that the church makes about itself — a claim that is
flatly implausible on its face.
And that, my former fellow Catholic communicants, is why I have left the
church — and why I fully expect quite a lot of the rest of you to be joining me
in my unregretted exodus very soon.
Decent and moral people should want nothing to do with this corrupt and disgusting institution.