Tuesday, May 15, 2012

State Laws Banning Same Sex Marriage - Doomed to Be Struck Down?


The issue of same sex marriage is all over the news and certainly has the Christofascists fuming and spraying spittle.   But ultimately, the issue will likely be decided in the courts just as was the case with school segregation and bans on interracial marriage.   A column in the Washington Post looks at some of the analysis and arguments being made in the current DOMA litigation and of course in the California Proposition 8 case.  The reality is that once religion - or more correctly conservative anti-gay religion - is stripped from the equation, there truly is little to support what is nothing more than a blatant denial of equal protection under the law to LGBT citizens and same sex couples.  Not coincidentally, the Bible is being cited as the Christianists basis for open bigotry.  Just as it was to support slavery and just as it was to support the bans on interracial marriage.  Here are column highlights:

President Obama is walking a tightrope on same-sex marriage, teetering between his stated view that marriage is the province of the states and his legal position that refusal to recognize same-sex marriage can violate the Constitution.
 
Referring to Mitt Romney’s support for a constitutional amendment to bar same-sex marriage, the president warned it would be “a mistake to try to make what has traditionally been a state issue into a national issue.”

But in Loving v. Virginia, the Supreme Court’s 1967 ruling that anti-miscegenation laws violate the equal protection and due process clauses of the Constitution, the justices did exactly what Obama counsels against. The decision transformed a state issue into a national one, because of the odiousness of discriminating on the basis of race and the fundamental importance of the right to marry.

“The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men,” Chief Justice Earl Warren wrote in Loving.

Federal courts are now grappling with the ruling’s modern-day equivalent: whether those constitutional protections extend to same-sex couples. Under Obama’s direction, the Justice Department took the extraordinary step of declining to defend the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA)  .  .  

[T]he implications of the Justice Department’s legal arguments point to an eventual clash with the president’s leave-it-to-the-states approach. In its brief arguing that DOMA is unconstitutional, the department said that laws discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation should be subject to “heightened scrutiny” by courts. That would mean such laws could pass constitutional muster only if they are “substantially related to an important governmental objective.”

DOMA, it contended, failed to meet that test. Citing earlier Supreme Court rulings, the Justice Department argued that the interests Congress asserted in passing DOMA, such as “defending traditional notions of morality” or “promoting heterosexuality,” are not acceptable justifications. “Discouraging homosexuality, in other words, is not a governmental interest that justifies sexual orientation discrimination,” the brief stated.

Neither, it continued, is the notion of defending traditional heterosexual marriage. “As an initial matter, reference to tradition, no matter how long established, cannot by itself justify a discriminatory law under equal protection principles,” the brief said.

[T]he leap from not defending DOMA to taking a position that same-sex couples have a constitutional right to marry is not very great. Indeed, it seems almost preordained by the conclusion that sexual orientation is a classification, like race or gender, subject to heightened scrutiny. 
Once that tougher test for justifying a law is triggered, the chance of it being deemed constitutional plummets, and rightly so. Where fundamental rights are involved, where the groups being targeted have a history of being discriminated against, their freedom to marry should not depend on whether they live in Mississippi or Massachusetts. The president, as a former constitutional law professor and, even more, as the son of a couple whose marriage would have been illegal in 22 states, surely understands this point. States, like presidents, evolve. But in the end, the rights of gay Americans, as those of African Americans, cannot be left to majority whim.



Mitt Romney's History of Failure to Support Anti-Gay Bullying Laws

A piece in The Atlantic looks at Mitt Romney's track record on supporting anti-gay bullying laws and it's not a pretty picture.  Of course, after last week's major article by the Washington Post we all know why: Romney's an anti-gay bully himself who believes that he can abuse and torment those he believes to be gay.  As Governor of Massachusetts Romney even withdrew support for gay teen suicide prevention programs.  It truly doesn't get much lower.  But I'd go even a step further, and say that the anti-gay laws being pushed by the GOP and Romney's anti-gay stances in and of themselves constitute a form of deliberate bullying.  Bullying that keeps anti-gay bigotry alive and maintains an atmosphere where bullies feel free to target LGBT people for abuse and even violence.   Here are excerpts from The Atlantic article:

As Massachusetts governor, he underwent an evolution of his own, withdrawing support for a gay teen suicide prevention group.   In 2003 and 2004, Mitt Romney signed official proclamations supporting a gay-pride march sponsored by a nonprofit organization linked to the Massachusetts Commission on Gay and Lesbian Youth. The following year, Romney proposed doubling the commission's budget.

But in 2006, when the nonprofit distributed a press release about the annual parade for "gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender" youth on official state stationery, Romney threatened to shut the commission down just days before the event. He quickly relented, but the near-death experience led the group to reorganize so that it no longer served at the pleasure of the governor.

The incident is worth revisiting in the wake of a Washington Post article detailing Romney's bullying of a presumably gay classmate when he was in prep school in Michigan in 1965. Former students say Romney, with help from friends, pinned down the classmate and cut off his bleached-blond, shaggy hair.

While voters may disagree on what the incident reveals about Romney's character and whether it is relevant to his presidential campaign, his record is clear on issues related to gay youth, who are four times more likely to commit suicide than their peers, according to studies. 

The governor's support for gay youth faded over the course of his four years in office, which activists on both sides of the debate view as the calculations of a politician from a liberal state positioning himself for the national stage. Distribution of an anti-bullying guide that included a section on gay kids floundered under his administration, and he cut some funding for suicide prevention at the end of his term. 
 
"I think he was politically opportunistic," said Carly Burton, deputy director of MassEquality, a leading advocacy group for same-sex marriage. "He thought he needed to be more moderate to get elected, and once he saw marriage was such a hot-button issue, he realized he needed to stake his claim with the other side."

After MassResistance! brought the press release about the parade to Romney's attention in 2006, Henry got a call from Romney's chief of staff, Beth Myers, now one of his top campaign advisers. "She said the commission was no longer in existence," recalled Henry, who immediately notified the press and some sympathetic legislators, who organized a sit-in at the governor's office. "He was getting such feedback that hours later he backed off. It gives new meaning to the term flip-flop."
 
Romney abolished the hate-crimes task force, which surveyed middle school students and drafted the anti-bullying guide, in 2003. "The governor was pushing back against earmarks by legislators, and they viewed hate-crimes legislation as an earmark," Gorton said. "He was also starting to court evangelicals, and I think he saw anti-bullying efforts as expendable to appease the Religious Right." 

[I]t's hard for me to believe that he doesn't remember holding a kid down and cutting his hair off," she [Kathleen Henry chairwoman of the commission at the time and a current member] said. "I would think you would carry that guilt with you forever."

GOP Controlled Virginia House of Delegates Sinks Gay Judicial Nominee

Send yet another message to the entire world that Virginia is the home of rank bigotry and discrimination  where LGBT citizens are treated like garbage the GOP controlled Virginia House of Delegates killed the nomination of Tracy Thorne-Begland to a General District Court judgeship.  So much for the United States Constitution's prohibition of religious tests for public positions.  In Virginia, it one doesn't meet the religious criteria of the Christofascists in the Virginia GOP, one has no rights.  It's disgusting and why I tell would be newcomers to Virginia to think twice.  Why move to a state where gays are subject to open contempt and discrimination as a matter of state policy.  Note that the Virginia GOP did its dirty work in the wee hours of the morning this morning.  Note too the cowardice of a number of Democrats - something I'll remember the next time I receive a call for money.  Here are highlights from the Virginian Pilot:

The House of Delegates, voting in Tuesday's early morning hours, blocked an openly gay Richmond prosecutor from appointment to a General District Court judgeship in the city.

Tracy Thorne-Begland received 33 yes votes, 31 no votes - all from Republicans - and 10 abstentions in his bid to become what gay-rights advocates said would have been Virginia's first openly gay jurist. Twenty-six House members, including seven Democrats, did not vote.  A minimum of 51 votes in the 100-member House is required for election.

Thorne-Begland, a former Navy pilot who was honorably discharged after publicly disclosing his sexual orientation, was one of only two candidates among scores of judicial nominees not to be approved during a `round-the-clock marathon that lingered from 1 p.m. Monday to 2 a.m. Tuesday.
 
Among Thorne-Begland's fiercest critics was Del. Robert G. Marshall, an outspokenly anti-gay Republican from Prince William who is among four candidates seeking the GOP's U.S. Senate nomination in next month's primary.

Marshall said he opposed Thorne-Begland on grounds that he denied his true sexual orientation in a statement those entering the armed forces at the time were forced to sign in the era before President Bill Clinton instituted the "don't ask, don't tell" policy toward gays in the military.

 Later, Marshall said he also considered Thorne-Begland unfit for the bench because being openly gay clashes with his duty to uphold the Virginia Constitution, which includes an amendment that defines marriage solely as a monogamous union between a man and a woman.
 
Thorne-Begland's chief House defender was also a Republican. Del. Manoli Loupassi, a Richmond lawyer, has known and practiced for years in courtrooms with Thorne-Begland, a successful deputy commonwealth's attorney in charge of handling the capital city's heavy caseloads of homicides, assaults and other violent crimes.

"He's been doing his job and he's been doing it well. He's been protecting us from criminals," Loupassi said. "I have known this man for a very long time and I believe that he absolutely will carry out the duties of his office in a dignified way and a correct way."

Virginia's first openly gay legislator, Sen. Adam Ebbin, D-Alexandria, said he was "ashamed and disgusted" by the "homophobic behavior of the House of Delegates."

Have I mentioned that I hate Virginia?  I'd also note that this kind of rank bigotry is why I cannot support ANY GOP candidate currently.

Monday, May 14, 2012

More Monday Male Beauty


Christianists Claim that They Killed GCB

The boyfriend and I rarely watch televisions on Sunday nights - that is until we became hooked on GCB.  Having lived in Alabama, Texas and Virginia, the characters on GCB proved only too true to life in terms of their hypocrisy, shallowness and mean spirited behavior -  all the while as they proclaimed themselves "godly Christians" and wore their religiosity on their sleeves.  Needless to say the Christianists and modern day Pharisees of the far right were none too happy with the show since it held up a mirror to their routine behavior.  Among those who had their panties in a HUGE wad were the so-called One Million Moms - yes, the same anti-gay bitches who have been harassing J C Penny for its ads with Ellen Degeneres.  They have put major pressure on ABC to drop the show and are rejoicing that ABC seems to have given in to the pressure.  Joe Jervis reports this:

You knew this was coming.
"GCB" got axed by ABC and won't be coming back for a second season. Praise the Lord! Jesus Christ will not be mocked! God is using OneMillionMoms.com to help remove this filth from television. As the hands and feet for the Lord, we are making a real difference. These accomplishments are the result of the Lord's blessing on the prayers, action alerts, email letters, and gifts from concerned and generous supporters.
Candidly, I would argue that the worse filth on television are the televangelist shows with their snake oil merchants and flim flam pleas for money , not to omit of course Pat Robertson others of his ilk.  Some want to fight back and change.org has a petition drive to convince ABC to rethink its decision.  Please consider signing the  "Save GCB" petition HERE.  Over 25,00 have signed so far.

Don't Miss HRBOR's May, 2012, HRBOR Networking Event

I am hoping that local readers will join the boyfriend and me for an evening at the offices of the Virginia Arts Festival organization whose purpose is to  bring world-class performing arts to Hampton Roads citizens and visitors.  Through the arts, Virginia Arts Festival seeks to impact the lives of students through outstanding educational programs, by commissioning new works of national and international significance, and making a tangible difference in Hampton Roads through regional partnerships and making a positive economic impact through the generation of cultural tourism. The event will include a surprise theatrical presentation while LGBT and LGBT friendly business owners and allies network and build business relationships that enhance both the LGBT and larger business communities.  Here are details:



When:  May 17, 2012, from 6PM to 8 PM

Where: 440 Bank  Street, Norfolk VA23510 (757-282-2800)

Featured Non Profit: Virginia Arts Festival

Parking: Nearby Royster Parking Garage, Lanier Parking System or Laz Parking



Guest Fees: $15.00; Members Free

CASH BAR

HRBOR Mission Statement:  Hampton Roads Business OutReach (HRBOR) is a broad based coalition of LGBT owned and LGBT supportive businesses and professionals dedicated to the development, growth and advocacy of Hampton Roads and its LGBT community. By promoting an environment in which diversity can flourish, HRBORis committed to the economic growth and prosperity of our members and our community.

Del. Bob Marshall Says Judicial Nominee Is Unfit Because He's Gay

Proving once again that he's a complete nasty, bigoted ass (and that Rep. James Lankford clearly isn't the only total asshole within the GOP), Virginia Delegate Bob Marshall (pictured at left) - one of the architects of Virginia's anti-gay Marshall-Newman Amendment and who has admitted that he'd like to drive all gays from Virginia - is challenging the nomination of Richmond prosecutor Tracy Thorne-Begland for the Richmond, Virginia, General District Court bench.  Like Rep. Lankford in the prior post, Marshall seems to suggest that being gay is a choice and a "behavior."  Among Marshall's allegations is that Thorne-Begland (who I know) is incapable of impartiality.  Never mind that General District Court cases virtually never involve gay rights issues since such courts have limited jurisdiction.  Obviously, Marshall (who I suspect believes that the only good gay is a dead gay) is projecting his own total inability to be impartial onto Thorne-Begland.  Marshall, who is consumed religious based bigotry and homophobia, could not in my opinion be impartial if his life depended on it.  WTVR-TV has coverage on Marshall's latest anti-gay jihad: 

RICHMOND, Va. (WTVR)–A Richmond prosecutor is being challenged as a judicial nominee, because of his advocacy for gay rights.

When the General Assembly meets on Monday, lawmakers will vote to appoint several judges.

It’s not usually a process that creates a lot of buzz, but this time around it is.  Delegate Bob Marshall said he will seek to remove the name of Richmond prosecutor Tracy Thorne-Begland from a list of proposed District Court judicial appointments.  “I don’t even think it’s proper to put his name forward because of his behavior,” said Marshall, who called Thorne-Begland “a homosexual activist,” in a press release.

Thorne-Begland has been nominated to serve as a judge for Richmond’s General District Court, but, Marshall challenges the nomination on the grounds of the prosecutor’s sexual orientation.  “We have a constitution which says marriage is between one man and one woman and if he’s taking an oath, he has to uphold and defend that as a judge,” said Marshall.  “If his lifestyle is exactly contrary to that… I don’t see how he could do that,” he said.

“I think it’s unfortunate, said Democratic Senator Donald McEachin.”Tracy fought for this country.”
More than 20 years ago, Thorne-Begland graduated at the top of his class from Navy flight school in Pensacola, Fla.

McEachin, Thorne-Begland’s sponsor in the Senate, says that Marshall is ignoring the prosecutor’s record.
“Bob just has a phobia…that’s the real problem,” said McEachin.  McEachin went on to say Thorne-Begland is no different from the other nominees.

“Everyone has a background who comes onto the bench, but, we select judges to be able to put aside their backgrounds, to put aside whatever personal passions they have to be a judge,” said McEachin.

Marshall truly will not be happy until he makes Virginia a worldwide laughingstock.  If Marshall had his way, all Virginians would be Kool-Aid drinking, Bible beating  Neanderthals.   And gays are not Marshall's only targets in his quest to drag Virginia back into the Dark Ages.  He also sponsored some of the most anti-women's rights bills in the Virginia General Assembly, including a "personhood" bill for fertilized eggs that fortunately died this year.

GOP Congressman Says Firing Gays Should Be Legal; Claims Being Gay is a Choice

Underscoring why the Christianists continue to promote the "ex-gay" myth regardless of the positions of legitimate mental health and medical experts is the statement by Rep. James Lankford (R-OK) who told Think Progress last week that it should be legal to fire gays from their jobs because "being gay is a choice."  The only choice on the entire issue would seem to be Lankford's choice to be an ignorant bigot.  Without the lies and falsehoods disseminated by NARTH, PFOX, and similar snake oil merchant organizations and the claims of "ex-gays for pay" like PFOX's Greg Quinlan, Lankford wouldn't even have the smallest shred of a basis for his foul statements.  Here some  highlights from Think Progress on Lankford's both utterly ignorant and bigoted statements:

Rep. James Lankford (R-OK) told Think Progress last week that he believes someone should be able to be fired for his or her sexual orientation.

In a conversation on Capitol Hill, Lankford expressed his strong belief that being gay is a choice, and that LGBT workers should not be protected from workplace discrimination because it’s something they can change. “You don’t walk up to someone on the street and look at them and say, ‘gay or straight?’” Lankford said:
STRASSER: Would you support a law that says you can’t fire someone for their sexual orientation –
KEYES: Similar to protections for people on race or gender?
LANKFORD: Well, you’re now dealing with behavior and I’m trying to figure out exactly what you’re trying to mean by that. Because you’re dealing with — race and sexual preferences are two different things. One is a behavior-related and preference-related and one is something inherently — skin color, something obvious, that kind of stuff. You don’t walk up to someone on the street and look at them and say, “Gay or straight?”
KEYES: But you think that even if you can’t see they’re that way, you don’t think someone is born gay necessarily?
LANKFORD: Do I personally? No. I don’t. I think it’s a choice issue. Are tendencies and such? Yes. But I think it’s a choice issue.

As I said, it is to give a semblance of legitimacy to individuals like Lankford and his anti-gay statement that motivates the Christianists to spend big money promoting the "choice" and "ex-gay" myths.

Monday Morning Male Beauty


National Action Alliance For Suicide Prevention Tackles LGBT Suicide

For many in the LGBT community thoughts of suicide are not passing thoughts and each year as many posts on this blog have noted, there is a continued blood bath of LGBT teens who take their own lives.  Growing up myself in denial and in the closet, truthfully, I cannot even count the number of times that suicide seemed like the best option.  The only assured escape from a hostile world where conservative politicians (think Mitt Romney, Bob McDonnell, Ken Cuccinelli, Bob Marshall and countless others), hateful religious leaders and self-congratulatory "Christians" denigrate us constantly and do all they can to make our lives a living Hell.  But it's not just LGBT teens who view suicide at times as their only salvation.  Indeed, twice I engaged in serious suicide attempts that resulted in hospitalization.   One time involved taking a month's supply of Xanax.  The other involved lots of alcohol and a vehicle running in a closed garage.  Each time someone discovered me in time.   But for that, I wouldn't be writing this post.  In recognition of this reality that suicide is not just a youth and teen issue in the LGBT community, The National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention is changing its approach to LGBT suicide.  Think Progress looks at this important issue.  Here are highlights: 

Before he completed suicide at the age of 26 in 2010, Joseph Jefferson recorded his final words on Facebook: “I could not bear the burden of living as a gay man of color in a world grown cold and hateful towards those of us who live and love differently than the so-called ‘social mainstream.’”

Though LGBT suicide is frequently portrayed as a wholly youth phenomenon, Joseph was an LGBT activist who had built a life for himself as an adult after getting through what many people assume to be the only tough part of an LGBT person’s life — adolescence.

The National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention, the public-private partnership aimed at saving the more than 34,000 lives in the United States lost every year to suicide, has taken a lead in changing public misperceptions about LGBT suicide. In particular, the Action Alliance task force that concentrates on the LGBT population has changed its name from the LGBT Youth Task Force to the LGBT Populations Task Force, acknowledging the struggles with suicide ideation, suicide attempts, and death by suicide that many LGBT people confront at different points in their lives.

The reasons that suicide is a lifelong concern for many LGBT people are complex and dynamic. These risk factors include family rejection, lack of social support, lack of access to culturally competent healthcare providers, and the stress of living with discrimination and prejudice.

Because of family or employment obligations, many LGBT adults, like most LGBT youth, do not get to choose where they live and work—often leaving them trapped in hostile environments with family members, co-workers, or neighbors who do not accept them.

Certain protective factors may mitigate these risks. Such factors include family acceptance, affirming and culturally competent mental and behavioral health services, and policies that extend legal protections and promote acceptance.

[M]uch remains to be done to help eliminate suicidal thoughts and behavior among LGBT individuals. In addition to increased legal protections and working to change stubborn social prejudices, there is a particularly pressing need for further research and data collection regarding mental health and suicide among the gay and transgender population.

Currently, there are no national data regarding suicidal ideation or suicide rates among the LGBT population as a whole. Nor are there sufficient data regarding the experiences of specific segments of the LGBT population, including LGBT youth and elders, transgender adults, and LGBT people of color, who may be at increased risk because of the multiple burdens of discrimination they bear.

In addition to driving research that can guide efforts to prevent LGBT suicide, the ultimate purpose of the Action Alliance is to save lives by decreasing the rate of suicide in our country. And to do this, each one of us — whether LGBT or ally, pastor or policymaker, researcher or activist — must respond to the moral imperative to help build a world where LGBT people count and are counted, and where they can live their lives free from discrimination, harassment, and the violence of suicide.

The goals in the last paragraph quoted seem to have little likelihood of success in the nearer term with the GOP, the Roman Catholic bishops, the leadership of the Southern Baptist Convention and far too many others determined to stigmatize and deprive LGBT individuals of respect much less legal protections and equality.  I will state categorically, that living in anti-gay states like Virginia doesn't help one's outlook.  Are there times when I still think suicide is a possible solution?  Once in a while - like last Tuesday night when I saw the hate and bigotry so palpable in the Amendment One vote in North Carolina.   Having one's humanity and very being constantly attacked wears one down at times.