Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Second Saturday Salon

I went to the meeting of the salon one of my clients invited me to last night and really enjoyed it. The mission statement for the group is as follows: “To create a living and growing community in which greater wisdom, joy and clarification can be found. This is accomplished by nurturing an atmosphere in which we can socialize, respectfully share ideas and engage in discussion. Through this process we illuminate our shared journey and expand our consciousness of the human condition.”

There were probably forty people in attendance and everyone brought food and beverages to share. The food was good and there was a lot of it, as well as plenty of wine. People attending were from assorted professions and many were originally from other areas of the USA and even four other countries. It definitely was not your typical gathering of folks in often culturally backward Virginia. Generally, the monthly sessions consist of a discussions of a topic agreed to by the members at the previous session. The topics can range over a wide spectrum. Next month’s topic will be anima-animus: the feminine and masculine in each.

The session last night was a bit different since it was the beginning of a new calendar year—a time to look forward and release ourselves from those things that bind us back to old patterns and habits. As a result, the session involved a group ritual for transformation—a Bowl Burning Ceremony. The ceremony involved setting up an altar of sorts with a fire pit containing in numerous lighted candles. After some opening spiritual prayers reminiscent of American Indian rituals, each person wrote down what he/she wanted to release on a piece of flash paper, approached the fire pit one at a time, and then lighted the paper by dropping it into the fire pit. The flash paper burned in a bright flash without smoke or ashes. Afterwards, as in some Indian rituals, sage was burned for purification. No doubt the Catholic Church would deem it some form of heresy, although the Unity Church and some other denominations apparently utilize the ritual.

The meeting and socializing lasted for over four hours. It was definitely a nice evening, after which I went and danced for two hours at The Wave.

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Sunday Reflections

I spent last evening at the home my friend who just lost his mother. It was one of those times where nothing you say or do is adequate, so that in the last analysis, all you can do is be with them, share their grief and let them know that you love them. For me, it brought back memories and emotions of my younger sister's death to cancer in 2001, as well as losing my father last September. A combination of disbelief, numbness and sorrow. And thoughts of what might have been.


The mood made me decide to go to church today for spiritual soothing, if you will. The church itself is a work of art (the photo at left does not do it justice) and has a majestic peacefulness to it. As is always the case, the parish members are welcoming and truly seem to care about me - I am probably one of the parish's more high profile gay members - in a genuine way, and not at all judgmentally. In fact, I am currently working on the pastor to join HRBOR, since there are an abundance of LGBT members of the local community who long for a church home. I know I rant about Christianists, but there are actually some good Christians out there who are not hatefilled bigots. It's nice to encounter them since it is usually the hate mongers who get all the publicity.


To completely digress, one poster recently asked why I do the "Male Beauty" posts since so many of my posts are on serious topics. I guess I do it for a couple of reasons: (A) for readers who enjoy the "eye candy" and (B) because beautiful guys are as much God's handiwork as majestic mountains or a beautiful ocean sunrise. In classical Greece, the human form was considered beautiful and to be admired. I believe that was the proper outlook and I appreciate the beauty of a gorgeous face and/or body.


I realize that I may have rambled a bit, but with what has happened, it is one of those days where my mood is all over the chart.