
Sometimes even if the end result may be beneficial, it still is galling that (1) the result took so long to achieve and (2) the real motives for the result remain open to question. Such is the case with the recent embrace of same sex marriage by Barack Obama and the NAACP among others. Why the change in attitude now? Was a sense in a change in the wind direction finally enough to convince the cynical that it was finally safe to do the right thing? Or was there a fear that by not "evolving" the political price might be too high? These are the questions raised in a piece in
Salon that looks at black homophobia and the political gyrations that have transpired over the last few weeks. The piece also looks at the very real damage that black homophobia wreaks on the black community as black pastors continue to all too often act as willing water carriers for anti-black white Christianist organizations such as The Family Foundation here in Virginia. Yes, there's snark in the column, but also a lot of truth. Here are highlights:
I still believe that President Barack Obama, for his ubiquitous
campaign promises of “hope” and “change,” publicly came out for same-sex
marriage too late in his presidency — the time to do the right thing is (almost) always right now
— and I still believe that Obama publicly came out for same-sex
marriage only after he’d calculated that it was politically safe to do
so (and maybe even only after he’d calculated that it was politically harmful to continue not to do so).
And I certainly don’t want to be told that I should be thankful that Obama politically went out on a limb
for my fellow non-heterosexuals and otherwise non-gender-conforming
individuals when, in fact, we helped put him in the Oval Office, and
when, in fact, our equal human and civil rights always have been and
always will be far more important than is one politician.
[T]he good news is that old bigots do die, that
they have fewer days ahead of them than they have behind them. And as
today’s younger bigots grow older and their bigotry becomes less and
less acceptable, at least they increasingly will keep their stupid
fucking mouths shut and keep their ignorance and hatred to their
miserable selves.
Saletan’s article even indicates that perhaps black homophobia helped get George W. Bush a second term in 2004:
A report from the pro-gay
National Black Justice Coalition
attributes President Bush’s 2004 re-election in part to the
near-doubling of his percentage of the black vote in Ohio, which he
achieved “by appealing to black churchgoers on the issue of marriage
equality.” This year, blacks in California were targeted the same way.
Saletan then goes, at some length, into the black homophobes’
“mutability”/“immutability” “argument,” which I just don’t fucking buy.
(Who chooses to be a member of
an historically reviled and oppressed minority group? Fucking
duh.)
I still surmise, as I wrote recently, that most homophobic blacks remain homophobic primarily because (1) they want to remain, in the national story, the
only victims of prejudice and discrimination and oppression, because their
identity is wrapped up in race-based victimhood, real or imagined/fabricated, and (2)
because they want there to be one
minority group that even they still can shit and piss upon, because
it’s better to be near the bottom of the sociological dog-pile that is
the United States of America than it is to be at the
very bottom, isn’t it?
This is cruelty and hypocrisy, of course, to demand equality for
one’s own minority group but to continue to shit and piss upon the
members of another historically oppressed minority group.
African Americans face the most severe
burden of HIV of all racial/ethnic groups in the United States. Despite
representing only 14 percent of the US population in 2009, African
Americans accounted for 44 percent of all new HIV infections in that
year. Compared with members of other races and ethnicities, African
Americans account for a higher proportion of HIV infections at all
stages of disease — from new infections to deaths.
Black homophobia — and its attendant ignorance and fear and stunning
lack of education and enlightenment – probably is the No. 1 reason for
those grim statistics, and, of course, heterosexual black women are less
likely to contract HIV and other STDs if their black male sexual
partners who actually are homosexual or bisexual don’t feel pressured to
lead double lives in order to give the appearance of heterosexuality in
order to please the homophobic bigots in their lives.
And, of course, it’s much easier for me and other non-heterosexuals
and non-gender-conforming individuals to be supportive of the members of
the black community if we have the same love and respect from them that
they want from us. With equal human and civil rights for everyone, everyone wins.
Except, perhaps, for the members of the right wing, who have opposed
equal human and civil rights, who have opposed liberty and justice for all, forever. That so many blacks have shared that trait with the white wingnuts is nothing short of tragic.
I suspect some will not like some of these opinions, but that fact doesn't make them any less true. Even more in the black community need to wake up to the reality of our common enemy.