I previously posted about fellow LGBT Blogger Summit attendee Jeremy Hooper's wedding to his partner being one of the weddings spotlighted in the 15th anniversary issue of Martha Stewart Weddings. Before that, I had posts last summer that carri
ed some photos from Jeremy and Andrew's wedding in Connecticut (at right). Now, The Advocate has an interview with Jeremy that looks at how he and his husband came to be featured in the magazine and what Jeremy hoped to achieve. I particularly like the fact that he sought to have his wedding as just as natural as that of a straight couple - which is as it should be. Needless to say, I applaud Jeremy and Andrew for their willingness to put their faces on an issue that has needlessly caused so much political turmoil. Here are some highlights from the Advocate story:*
Blogger Jeremy Hooper talks about being featured with his husband, Andrew Shulman, as the first gay couple in Martha Stewart Weddings. Jeremy Hooper is best known in gay circles as the brains behind the website GoodAsYou.org, which tackles everything from antigay conservatives sticking their feet in their mouths to the marriage equality movement. But this month Hooper (pictured at left) and his husband, Andrew Shulman, are more likely to be recognized as the first gay couple featured in Martha Stewart Weddings.
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Hooper first posted photos from his Connecticut wedding on his blog in June, circulating them out to newspaper and magazine editors in the weeks that followed. An editor from Martha Stewart Weddings e-mailed him back a day later. “I think they were actively looking for a same-sex couple,” Hooper says. The blogger says the magazine wasn’t looking to get overly political, but it was clear to him the editors were looking to make a statement.
Martha Stewart Weddings' editor in chief Vanessa Holden says it was Andrew and Jeremy's personal take on the wedding that really caught the magazine's eye. "We have thousands of submissions, and we look for a very particular kind of wedding," she says. "We liked the personal style, their take on how they wanted to celebrate their union. It was a very nice, well-executed, tastefully done celebration of two people's unions."
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Hooper says he made such a point of getting the wedding photos out there because “for the past five years my personal and my public life have been one and the same. Every step of this journey — every time I can put a human face on this issue, I do.” He says he thinks another reason editors at Martha Stewart Weddings were so eager to run the photos is that the wedding was so pro-family. “We had six or seven children there under the age of 10. We had a nun in full habit. Every faith, everything they always use against us, I think we nipped all of those in the bud.”
Martha Stewart Weddings' editor in chief Vanessa Holden says it was Andrew and Jeremy's personal take on the wedding that really caught the magazine's eye. "We have thousands of submissions, and we look for a very particular kind of wedding," she says. "We liked the personal style, their take on how they wanted to celebrate their union. It was a very nice, well-executed, tastefully done celebration of two people's unions."
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Hooper says he made such a point of getting the wedding photos out there because “for the past five years my personal and my public life have been one and the same. Every step of this journey — every time I can put a human face on this issue, I do.” He says he thinks another reason editors at Martha Stewart Weddings were so eager to run the photos is that the wedding was so pro-family. “We had six or seven children there under the age of 10. We had a nun in full habit. Every faith, everything they always use against us, I think we nipped all of those in the bud.”
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It is important for the members of the LGBT community to put human faces on "the gays" so that it becomes increasingly difficult to depict us as the "other" and somehow not fully human.
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