Wednesday, December 29, 2010

The Public Isn’t Homophobic, Hollywood Is

The other day I noted actor Richard Chamberlain's advice to gay actors to stay in the closet in order to protect their careers. Chamberlain's advice may sound practical, but it highlights what many - including myself - see as a double standard. Movers and shakers in Hollywood have been great advocates for repeal of DADT, the overturning of Proposition 8 and gay equality in general, yet the Hollywood establishment allows a different standard for itself compared to what so many of its stars demand of the military and the public at larger. What makes the situation all the more disturbing is that some of those in Hollywood who are holding the closet door shut are gays themselves. Are they worried solely about box office revenues or is something else going on such as latent self-doubt and internalized homophobia? Granted, there are few out major male stars, but coming out seems to have done nothing to harm the career of Neil Patrick Harris for example - who routinely plays a straight character. So what gives? Greg Gutfeld at Big Holloywood takes on the issue as does my friend Lyndon Evans at Focus on the Rainbow and as a community we need to ask Hollywood why it should not meet the same standards we have demanded of the U. S. military. First, this from Gutfeld:
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Chamberlain’s advice comes at a perfect time for people like me who need to write stuff: just days after the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. How hilarious is it that, as the military now dumps that strategy, a Hollywood icon is imploring actors to embrace it!
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Anyway, I wonder why we don’t demand from Hollywood, what Hollywood demands from the military. I have absolutely no data to back this up, but I bet the percentage of gays employed in film exceeds those in foxholes. Which is why homophobia seems worse in Tinseltown. The fact is, the troops can handle gays; Hollywood can’t.
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Evans, a former broadcast newscaster in a prior career before he discovered the world of blogging, gives the issue a far more detailed analysis and even points fingers at some of gay Hollywood and asks some pointed questions. Here are some highlights:
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While theater goers embrace actors and actresses who are openly gay and lesbian particularly on The Great White Way not so can be said of movie and television audiences, or so many in Hollywood would say. For the second time in as many years advice was given to actors and actresses, wannabees or actual, to stay in the closet as it can only hurt your career.
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This of course is the shameful irony of Hollywood which for decades has been a champion through its films for the mistreated, discriminated against and persecuted. The idea that those in power who have the luxury to be out prefer the actors and actresses who without which there would be no movie, are told to lie, not be true to themselves and stay closeted until such time that every nickel and dime has been squeezed out of their performing years.
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For all of the more read bloggers who are and write about LGBT injustice, I think I am one of the very few who has, and will continue to write about discrimination in Hollywood against gays, lesbians and bisexuals, not from the heterosexual powers that be, which of course is to be expected, but the ones who would have their own brethren stay in the closet forever.
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If the audience knows the guy is gay, apparently it will kill the fantasy and no one will want to buy tickets. We hear it time and time again from the Hollywood power players and creative folks – both gay and straight – and we heard it again over the weekend at the Outfest Film Festival during a panel called Coming Out in Hollywood.
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But it’s hard to change things when an openly gay writer-director such as Don Roos (The Opposite of Sex, Bounce, Happy Endings) has issues with gays playing straight and vice-versa.
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At Outfest on Sunday afternoon, three-time Emmy winning and openly gay director Todd Holland told a small audience that he advises young, gay male actors to “stay in the closet.” The remark came during a panel at the Directors Guild of America titled, “Taking It to the Streets: LGBT Directors Get Political.” Outfest, which pushes the slogan “protecting our past, showcasing our present, nurturing our future,” is one of the premiere gay and lesbian film festivals in the United States.
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Holland, who was talking as one of the featured panelists, and who once worked as a director on the critically acclaimed HBO sit-com The Larry Sanders Show, explained that it’s a necessary career choice if a gay actor wants to succeed in Hollywood. Fellow panelist and filmmaker Kirby Dick, director of Outrage, a 2009 documentary about gay politicians who stay in the closet to further their political careers, told Holland: “I know where you’re coming from, but it’s a regressive argument."
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Those LGBT bloggers who are so quick to throw Obama under the bus and the activists who protest about DADT, if they would rally behind the discrimination against gays, lesbians and bisexuals in Hollywood, then maybe, just maybe change would come.
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Evans' last comment is not directed at me in particular, but he does have a point and many of us in the blogosphere need to start asking hard questions of Hollywood.

3 comments:

gdouglasw said...

I was watching the Kennedy Center Honors last night (for Oprah, Bill T.Jones, Jerry Herman--the latter two openly gay and the packages were full of gay friendly content) but I noticed a "Kennedy Center Male Beauty" preforming during the Herman event: His name is Matt Bomer. He looked familiar so I googled him and came up with the face of promos for a USA series called "White Collar." The promos I've noticed but the show I've not seen. Also prominent in the search was this

http://www.queerty.com/why-is-white-collars-matthew-bomers-sexuality-such-a-secret-20091031/

which comments very powerfully with your recent post. To boot his partner is a high powered publicity agent

http://celebgalz.com/matt-bomer-dating-simon-halls-matt-bomer-dates-simon-halls/

Also:

Happy New Year to you an Barry, and thanks so much for the nuts!

Love,

Douglas

Michael-in-Norfolk said...

Douglas,

Thanks for the links which definitely give me more to talk about. Glad you guys liked the nuts. :)

Hope all is well in PA and hope you'll come visit us sometime.

Michael

Unknown said...

Thanks for the highlight of my posting(s). When I wrote the piece on the double standard in Hollywood back in July and added that about LGBT bloggers, to be honest I had in the back of my mind "I hope Michael doesn't think I mean him".

No that's reserved for those who are a closed knit circle of the so-called New Media of LGBT bloggers, do I really have to name names, I think not, whose mission or at least it seems to me, is to wget their 15 plus minutes of fame at the expense of selective LGBT issues.

Well boys and girls, I've had more than my share of 15 minutes of fame and which is why my blog, and with all pun intended, highlights and focuses on more than just the current "popular" LGBT issue of the day, week or month.

It's funny how I'll post on a subject such as Hollywood and its double standard or other items I find to bring a larger scope in view within our community, and yet others don't even mention or days, even a week or two later "oh by the way" mention a topic.

Michael started blogging just before I did and has been a great friend and fellow blogger since we started. In fact if truth be known as Michael does, when I started making LGBT blogs and websites, some still active, some put to bed, it was really more because of him that in order to be true to myself and readers of my Internet publications that I came out for all the world to see that I'm bisexual.

While Michael and I live hundreds of miles apart and sometimes differ on somethings all LGBT, it would make for interesting squabbles around the dinner table.

One thing for sure Martha would have his hands full playing referee calling timeouts and fouls.

For those of you who read Michael's blog and are often tired of the same old, same old of the New Media LGBT bloggers, I invite you to stop by "Focus On The Rainbow" and add it to your daily reading.

One thing for sure particularly with some of my commentary you won't be bored and might even say once in a while "oh no he didn't !".