Retired Bishop: Sex With Boys Doesn't Count as Sex

Having been raised Roman Catholic, I am all too aware of the Catholic Church's bizarre hang ups on all matters sexual and the manner in which - despite outward worship of the Virgin Mary - women are viewed by the all male hierarchy as evil temptresses just waiting to drag males to perdition. It's a mind set that is beyond f*cked up. It took me years of therapy to get over the psychological abuse I received at the hands of the Church. And sadly, in many areas the Church is continuing to inflict severe psycho-sexual damage on children and youth even as predatory priests feel free to sexually abuse boys. Why do they have this sick mindset that the rape of boys and teens is okay? Because, according to a now retired Australian Bishop, to many priests sex with boys doesn't count as sexual sin because it's not with women - you know, those agents of the Devil. Daily India has coverage on this beyond sick situation. Here are highlights:
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A retired Catholic bishop in Australia has claimed that some priests do not view the molestation of boys as a breach of their celibacy vows.
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Geoffrey Robinson, the former auxiliary bishop of Sydney, blames the absence of women from church life as a catalyst for the sexual abuse crisis enveloping the faith. According to the Australian Women's Weekly, Robinson said boys suffered more than girls at the hands of paedophile priests partly because they were more available to them, with nuns tending to play a greater role in the religious education of young girls.
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There was also a view among some offenders with whom he had worked that a priest's celibacy vows weren't broken if a boy was involved. "We've met it often enough to see it as a factor. That's what the vow of celibacy refers to, being married. If it's not an adult woman, then somehow they're not breaking their vow," Adelaide Now quoted him as telling the magazine.
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Three years ago, Robinson broke 50 years of silence about his own abuse at the hands of a stranger, who he said wasn't a family member or a priest. It goes some way to explain his work with abuse victims and his commitment to change within the church.
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He says getting women more involved in church life is a crucial step forward. "If the feminine had been given greater importance and a much larger voice, the church would not have seen anything like the same level of abuse and would most certainly have responded far better," he said.
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He believes the issue will not be properly dealt with until the church holds a council, or a conference of all the bishops in the church, to revise the centuries-old doctrine on celibacy, women and sexuality.
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I've now come to believe that raising children as conservative Catholics is indeed a form of child abuse. Many of us did not realize it in the past, but with all that has come out - and continues to come out - about the damage the Church's sick obsession works on one's psyche, it's time to call such an upbringing for what it is. The same likely applies to raising children as strict Mormons or Southern Baptists where being human and a sexual being is seemingly considered among the worse sins.