When one of my kids was 12, he was invited to join an esteemed local choir, one of the crown jewels of Albany’s Episcopal Cathedral of All Saints. Although he was an atheist, he didn’t object to singing Christian music — years in children’s choruses and “holiday” concerts had accustomed him to that.
But as I, high on maternal pride, was calculating how I’d get him to two rehearsals a week, he asked me whether the church condoned same-sex marriage. I said I didn’t know. He said, well, if they didn’t, he wouldn’t join.
I checked: They most emphatically did not. When I told the choirmaster why my son was declining the invitation, he responded that progressive forces inside the church were working toward change. I wished him well. Even if their efforts succeeded, the change would no doubt arrive after my son’s tenure as an angel-voiced advertisement for a discriminatory institution.
Are you impressed by the moral clarity I expressed … after having been schooled by a seventh-grader?
I thought of this moment when I read that last month, Pensacola Christian College in Florida had disinvited the King’s Singers — an a cappella group visiting campus — two hours before their scheduled performance. The college canceled, it later said, “upon learning that one of the artists openly maintained a lifestyle that contradicts Scripture.” In other words, because one of its members was gay.
In fact, two are. The King’s Singers knew about the college’s position on homosexuality when they agreed to play there, but as they explained in an Instagram post: “Our belief is that music can build a common language that allows people with different views and perspectives to come together.”
It’s an extremely gracious statement. Yet I have to ask them, as I belatedly asked myself years ago: Why so tolerant of bigotry?
Are we just so accustomed to the anti-LGBTQ stances of conservative religious institutions that they don’t even register? Are we so used to church-sponsored homophobia that we ignore the vast, forbidding landscape of prejudice while celebrating the tiniest signs of change?
It made the news, for example, when Pope Francis told the Associated Press recently that homosexuality should not be criminalized, as it is in 67 countries, and urged bishops around the world to recognize everyone’s dignity. Amen.
He noted, however, that homosexuality is still a sin. The Catholic Church will keep calling it a sin, and urging sinners to repent, and it will keep refusing to recognize same-sex marriage or to condone adoption by same-sex parents, but in a way that also totally recognizes their dignity!
(Not for nothing: Where does the pope think those countries first got the idea that homosexuality should be a crime?)
In January, the Church of England apologized for its treatment of LGBTQ people while clarifying that such people would not be allowed to marry in the church. “For the times we have rejected or excluded you, and those you love, we are deeply sorry,” the pastoral letter reads. And for the times we will continue to reject or exclude you, we are so deeply sorry for those, too!
These official church statements represent genteel, soft-spoken prejudice in God’s name. For a more brutal version, take a look (if you can stomach it) at Hemant Mehta’s recent roundup of “Christian hate preachers,” each opining on video that gay people should be executed.
The Episcopal Church, for example, now officially sanctions same-sex marriage. And the Albany diocese — well, it’s working on it. A statement on the Episcopal Church website notes: “As with all spiritual journeys, everyone walks at their own pace. Some Episcopal congregations are actively involved in LGBTQ ministry and their arms are open wide; others are more reserved, but their doors are still open to all; some are still wrestling with their beliefs and feelings.”
Fair enough, right?
Now, let’s pretend that instead of talking about LGBTQ people, the church was talking about congregations “wrestling with their beliefs and feelings” about Black people. Would our spirit of patient forbearance extend to that?
Not too long ago, many American Christian institutions defended slavery, pointing to Bible verses such as Ephesians 6:5: “Slaves, obey your masters.” They then battled integration and interracial marriage, arguing that God meant for the races to be separated.
One day, maybe, the Catholic Church and the Church of England will treat its LGBTQ congregants as equals. Maybe even Pensacola Christian College will evolve. In the meantime, let’s not be fooled by the “religious belief” talk: It’s just old-fashioned bigotry.
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Tuesday, March 07, 2023
It's Time to End Tolerance of Religious Based Bigotry
As long term readers know, I am not a fan of religion. especially institutional religion where money, power and control of membersall too often is more important to those in authority than furthering the better, more loving aspects of their supposed creeds. Yes, some religious institutions do good work, but for each good work there are advrese aspects that harm others, especially those who do not subscribe to the dogma being pushed. Indeed, if one looks at the history of Judaism, Christianity and Islam all three promote division between their adherents and those who do not. Both Islam's and Christianity's histories are soaked in blood and tide to conquest by the sword. It was Christianity's bloody history - the slaughter of the Crusades, the extremination of the Cathars in France, and Europe's bloody wars of religion that prompted America's Founding Fathers to design the Constitution to be against an established religion and to promise religious freedom for all. In practice, however, America has had a de facto established religion - Christianity - which has used "deeply held religious beliefs" and cherry picked Bible passages to justify everything from slavery to today's renewed demoniztion of LGBT individuals by Republican elected officials and their ignorance and hate embracing evangelical/Christofascist base. It is long past time that promotion of one form of Christianity and deference to the hate, division and misety that it causes cease. A column in the Washington Post makes this argument and looks at the undue tolerance given to religious based hate and bigotry. Here are column highlights:
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Let's not be fooled. Churches are just a way to make tax free money!
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